Post Date December, 03 2023
1、 Don't be angry with women
"Anger hurts the liver and hurts the body", which is a hidden danger to people's physical health. "Gambling hurts people and hurts feelings" is an act between men and women that harms others and is not self-interested. As a man, whether the woman is reasonable or considerate, she should be optimistic and tolerant. If you are angry, you will lose your dignity; If you win your girlfriend, you will lose face. She will intensify the conflict with you.
2、 Don't fight with women
There are too many opportunities to drink now. If you are a man, like to drink, or others persuade you to drink, you should maintain the gentlemanly demeanor when drinking. If you are drunk, you are unlovable and hateful in the eyes of women. If the person who accompanies the wine drinks too much and talks nonsense to make a fool of you, it will be even worse.
3、 Don't talk about other women
Love is selfish and exclusive, and no third party is allowed. In front of your girlfriend, if you praise other women, she will think that you are "in Cao Ying and in Han", and your feelings are not single-minded; If you slander and criticize other women, she will take the seat, take it seriously and scold you for having ulterior motives.
4、 Don't haggle over every ounce
When shopping with your girlfriend, you must be calm and generous. Don't fight for small money. It will be disrespectful. If you speak rudely or fight hard, you will be ruined. The girlfriend who came hand in hand may have gone away
5、 Pay attention to the importance of courtesy
Birthdays come year after year, and gifts are given year after year, but gifts to lovers should be practical, durable, collectable and other characteristics. Never give "gold" this year and "platinum" next year. Because in this way, she will expect to receive a valuable gift on every birthday, and she will hate you if her hope fails.
6、 Don't repeat your promise
When you are in trouble, you can ask your girlfriend for help or assistance, but don't promise anything before you help; After the event, I forgot all about it, didn't say a word of thanks, or there were many promises that could not be fulfilled. Instead, we should rely on mutual trust and based on pure feelings, because feelings are not usury or trading with strangers.
For men, 30 is the age of confusion and contradictions; It is an age with a career building on the left and a family on the right; It is an age that is always full of restlessness and constantly flashing out of control; It is an age who is preoccupied with worries, planning and designing for family career, and must pay a hundred times of efforts.
Men are difficult because men live in the pursuit of hardship. Without bulging pockets or prominent power, they will be like a dwarf in the battle of love. With the help of relatives and friends, I finally got married and started a family. Before I fully experienced and tasted the sweetness of the wedding, a lot of housework fell on me dutifully.
Sometimes, he is upset and his head is empty and he just shouts a few times, and he is afraid that women will have to run to the countryside to face the reality when he is exhausted. Don't think that men will live naturally without having children. In fact, men's hearts are full of pain.
The reason why men are difficult is that men have different environments, different opportunities and different qualities. It is hard to avoid the bitterness of ambition. Therefore, it is hard to avoid the confusion of disillusionment and the sigh of failure of career.
While making every effort to manage the poor business, men should also bravely shoulder the burden of building a warm home and forge a harbor for their wives and children that can prevent wind and rain. Therefore, men are really in the gap between career journey and family garden.
When you approach a man, you will also sigh: Man is really bitter and tired! But then again, if there are women in the world, men should still be upright men, which is the need of society and the responsibility of men.
