Post Date December, 03 2023
As the saying goes, men have gold under their knees. That is to say, in men's hearts, face and dignity are more important than anything. If a person hurts a man's dignity, it is really a cruel thing. In other words, sometimes it is not entirely the fault of others that men are hurt, and sometimes they should look for reasons from themselves.
The most typical is the self-belief that men have too much self-belief that they do things in their own way without too much advice from others, so they will encounter many frictions. This is the case in marriage life. If men can avoid the following self-belief, the relationship between husband and wife will be much more harmonious.
1、 Think you have gold under your knees
When a man uses this sentence to describe himself, you can be sure that there is no gold under his knee.
Otherwise, his knee would have bent long ago. If he had to kneel to pick up the gold, as long as the amount of gold was enough, the man who was good at sophistry would make a new explanation for "the man has gold under his knee".
Men have gold on their knees, which means that it is reasonable to kneel or not. When there is no gold, you must show your dignity and not kneel. The reason is that the man has gold under his knee; When there is gold, you must show your sense and kneel down, because the man has gold under his knee.
2、 Thought he was Adam
Not only do they think they are Adam, but they often touch their ribs, thinking that it is really Eve.
As soon as the story is mentioned, men will frown and smile. In fact, their interest in the Bible and God is limited to that. In the rest of the time, when they mention the Lord and Jesus, they will say, "Who can believe that? Is there any need for religion?"?
Men derive another idea from this, which not only reflects men's desire to conquer, but also reflects men's vulnerability. Even the rib should and must follow him faithfully. For this reason, he renamed Eve Eve Eve. However, once the bone was broken, he could not make himself clear, but the man didn't say.
Men who have a stronger desire to conquer and are more violent towards their beloved women are often the most vulnerable men. It is said that Eve's cunning was attributed to the snake, so Eve fell in Adam's favor. Conquer me and be cruel to me. I am willing. In fact, Adam finally found himself a slave with a whip.
3、 Think women are God's "pet"
Some men think that women are flirtatious because they think they are the darling of "God". That's really his self-belief. crafty women are very realistic. Whoever goes all the way to be the darling of God, who wants to be the "darling" of "stupid" men.
Silly men think they are clever in criticizing women. You are not God's pet!!!! The women nodded seriously. Yes, we are not.
The more angry a man is about women being "God's pet", the more stupid he is to pet women to death, otherwise he would not have such a strong pain.
Men never use the word "self inflicted". They are used to ridicule and prevaricate. Anyway, for women, it is more cost-effective to enjoy the love in reality than to bear a little face embarrassment. Therefore, men always think that.
4、 Think that "being cheap" is a woman's patent
Men, especially after many lovelorns, are either hit hard or want to prove that they are male because of nothing, and like to say that women are "cheap".
In fact, he may be cheaper than anyone else. If you have the ability of Zixia, you can jump to his heart to see, but his cheapness is strategic. Men have a longer history of education than women, and the cultural accumulation is better, so they will not commit cheapness naked.
Naked men who commit baseness are not without them, but they are not included in the discussion in this article, so they can not be men for the time being.
There is a kind of man who is very smart. They will say: If you are willing to be cheap for me, I will be cheaper than you.
Let it be more violent.
5、 Thinking that a woman wants you to repeat "I love you" means she cares about you
From a certain point of view, men may be the "pet" of the Virgin, and women's possessiveness may not be worse than men. If a woman's dog can speak, this task will also be a compulsory course for that dog.
For smart men, the real "I care about you" is women's persistent care and care, and difficult circumstances. Women want men to repeat the problem of "I love you", which is the same as men's reckless or thoughtless sweet words before marriage.
Smart women don't say, "Your mother and I fell into the river at the same time..."
Smart men will not take this as the main criterion to evaluate women.
A man who is pig-headed and arrogant often cannot measure a woman by his real excellent qualities. He is arrogant and fragile. Unfortunately, he usually meets a beautiful pig-headed woman because it is difficult for a beautiful smart woman to buy his false arrogant account. Of course, there are also those who smoke from their ancestral graves.
6、 Think that testing partners is a woman's patent
The partner of the man who said this must be lack of strategy or self-confidence, which led to the imbalance between men and women, so that some man said arrogantly: What about women? It's just because men care more about love, marriage, family, women's self-esteem and their reputation, and dare not test their wives or lovers. If China had not had a long enough feudal history of men being superior to women and the nearly primitive punishment for adultery in ancient times, I'm afraid Chinese women would have been as promiscuous as European women.
In fact, men's test and their misdemeanor are all undisguised. Women understand that, but their reaction is not as fierce as that of men. After all, he thinks he is Adam.
Here is a man's test of his girlfriend: the first time I asked, if I was poor, I couldn't bring you here, would you still be with me? The girlfriend readily said that of course not; The second time, I have a genetic disease. Will you leave me? My girlfriend laughed and said that I would accompany you to see it; The third time, he asked that his first girlfriend was coming to Shanghai, and her old love was unforgettable. She thought that he was testing again, and laughed it off. Seeing that she did not respond, he said two days later that they were ready to mend their old friendship, and stared at her closely. She knew that he was testing himself again, but this time he could not bear it.
The girl also told her own voice: "I don't know whether he is worried about gain or loss or lack of confidence. If he has confidence in my love, why test? If I don't love him at all, what is the use of test.
Like the song, how much love can come back, how many people are willing to wait, and what love can stand the test. We are all small people who often encounter setbacks in life. We can only cherish the gift of life more than we can worry about ourselves. It is not easy to live in peace and stability, and how can we afford the love of death and death? None of us are lovers, and we are doomed to have the story of heaven and earth shaking ghosts and gods.
Our love is in the morning and evening, in the daily necessities, in life and death, we just want to alleviate the pain of the world, and do not want to suffer any more.
If you love me, don't humble yourself.
If you love me, give me peace of life. "
7、 Think women want the so-called chivalry
Some Chinese men think that the generation of knights is a typical representative of soft food. How sincere and equal is the knightly demeanor generated from it? While women are clamoring for equality between men and women, they also ask for chivalry. In a word, men should always, everywhere, and everything for women... This kind of inequality may not be accepted by fools, let alone men who are more logical than women in most cases?
Knightly demeanor, don't mention it. According to the theory that only three generations have produced one aristocrat, the aristocratic dreams of older men and women at this stage may still have to be sent to their descendants. Women's meaning is very clear. Are men and women really equal? If equal, you will be a woman and I will be a knight.
If it is still not equal, you take advantage of a small loss, enjoy gentleness and consideration all your life, and serve tea and water, what else? Do you think men have gold under their knees?
Chivalry is just a good habit, bowing to the Japanese whenever they see people, but some people's habits include respect for women, which is appropriate for virtuous women.
The swearing men can laugh in front of the beautiful women with misdemeanor and secretly commit baseness, but privately scold the women are both flirtatious and cheap; In front of a kind and honest woman, put on a big master's posture and let me be a knight? Men and women are equal!! But this sentence is just like a trap when a man has gold under his knee.
