Post Date December, 02 2023
In today's simple and complex society, everyone will experience a period of entanglement. In marriage, both men and women have various psychological problems. It is no longer a woman's heart that is fragile, but a man's heart will also be fragile.
In marriage, men may also worry about their wives and experience psychological problems of all sizes. Let's take a look at the psychological problems that men have. In a family, if a man's wife is beautiful and capable, she often socializes, and sometimes comes back late at night. As a husband, she will definitely wait on pins and needles for her to come home, and she always worries about her infidelity and puts on a green hat for herself.
In fact, almost every man is very afraid of his wife putting on a green hat. From a psychological perspective, this fear is actually a hidden "sense of instability" in men's hearts. Let's colloquially call it "green hat phobia". This "instability" is afraid of what happens to his wife behind his back. Research has shown that women have a much higher level of trust in their husbands than men in their wives. This is consistent with real life - men can confidently stay out all night drinking and playing mahjong, and coax women out with a few words, while men often do not treat women in this way. If men often go out and don't even stay up at night, they don't think there's anything wrong with it. However, if their wives experience the same situation, men will be filled with doubts and restlessness, which is also known as the green hat phobia of male psychology.
Men sometimes have particularly strong "suspicion" behavior towards their wives, which is very wrong. Men will show a strong aversion to the men around their wives. Colleagues, classmates, friends, and even relatives, as long as they are male and get along more frequently, especially those whose wives have more opportunities to mention them, will "blacklist" them, carrying this "blacklist" and accumulating depression into "green hat phobia". They will put their efforts into research Arrange the frequency, venue, and time of contact between the wife and these "suspicious objects", and maintain a high level of vigilance and vigilance for a long time. They always feel that there is something wrong, but they always cannot grasp the handle.
As a husband, it is not appropriate for a wife to have suspicion, and this male mentality is a very unhealthy psychological state. The most important thing between husband and wife is mutual trust. Only emotions and marriages based on trust are happy and strong. If men are always so suspicious of ghosts, it can actually cause cracks in the relationship between husband and wife.
The happiness of marriage depends on two people, and any problems that arise in marriage, whether physically or psychologically, must be solved through appropriate methods. Not only do we need to pay attention to the psychology of relatively weak women, but the mental health of male friends also requires our attention.
