Women often sigh that modern men are really hard to serve. They are all "Chen Shimei". Why do men always like the new and dislike the old? Why do men enjoy extramarital love so much, prefer to take risks, and also play this balance game?
Men prefer to play extramarital love at the cost of their own families, but in fact, there is a kind of push in their hearts. They have been looking for the explosive power of body and spirit
Look for love -- many men emphasize that the reason why they fall in love with their lover is that she is gentle, beautiful and caring for herself than their first wife. They want to find a better woman. What I look for in my lover is different from my wife's temperament, style and style. I like my partner with a bit of mystery and seduction. Because my wife has been living together for a long time, they are quite familiar with each other. There is no beauty of distance. My lover just meets their psychological needs.
Looking for youth - people usually think that only women care about their age, and they are keen to cover up the traces of age through makeup, clothing, beauty, and body beauty. In fact, men also care whether they are still young, energetic and attractive, which is also a kind of competitive capital for men.
But their desire for eternal youth is much more secret than that of women. Why do most men find young and beautiful ladies as lovers? They want to prove that they are still attractive and cannot be underestimated.
Identity search - usually only those men with money can afford to find lovers. In the eyes of some people, lovers have become the symbol of status and status, just like villas, famous cars, and brand-name clothing. Beautiful lovers seem to be the live advertisements of men with status.
An ordinary staff member of a joint venture has a low income, but since he got a lover, he found that even the manager seemed to look at him again. Men are far more socialized than women, and more affected by the environment and popular ideas than women.
Looking for love - some men regard their lovers as better marriage partners, but this proportion is relatively small. There are many complex emotional backgrounds behind the life-and-death extramarital affairs. Such extramarital affairs lead to a high proportion of divorce.
Sexual satisfaction - this is the man's biggest "gain" in extramarital affairs. Most extramarital affairs have the nature of sex. Men with normal sexual life regard extramarital affairs as curiosity; Men who are not satisfied with their sexual life transfer and vent their sexual desire through extramarital affairs.