Men also have a sensitive heart. Beneath their indifferent appearance, they are actually a soul that needs to be cared for. Those careless sisters, please don't be too ruthless when you speak next time, otherwise you will also poke his awkward mind. Talking about each other's strengths is more helpful in cultivating feelings.
All she loves is a treat to dinner
"Although I am only 26 years old, I already have such concerns: whether a woman is in love with me or my money. Because it is undeniable that our generation is far more materialistic than previous generations."
So for women, it's far more demeaning to take over a bill when it arrives and make some more cost-effective suggestions than to hide in the bathroom. Although sometimes you have to pay the bill for dining out, when your boyfriend pays for your purchases at Starbucks, fruit stores, takeout stores, and dry cleaners, does it not make you experience the taste of love?
"When I lose my job, she'll consider me a loser."
For men, the psychological trauma of being seen as a loser is far greater than the loss of income. Men tend to equate professional status with self worth. Therefore, unemployment for them is far more than simply losing their income.
So what should I do as a girlfriend? You can pour him a glass of good wine first, and then screen your circle of friends to see who can deliver a resume for your boyfriend. In the current economic situation, people generally cannot find jobs without social connections and referrals. If your boyfriend doesn't want to use social networking sites such as Twitter and Linked-In, it's up to you to help him.
She will be unfaithful to me
"I trust my girlfriend 100% emotionally, but when betrayal between lovers becomes a common topic in movies, television, and even song discussions, it seems likely to happen to anyone."
For this issue, perhaps women are not willing to write such a bad check as "never", but will use other ways to let their boyfriends know their sincerity. You can clearly tell him that there is only him in your heart, and being loyal to him is the most important thing you care about. Even if there are emotional bumps in the future, you will tell each other directly without covering up or even deceiving him.
She wouldn't like a top man
"Before losing all my hair, every minute of effort may not necessarily lead to finding a woman who truly loves me."
Hair loss is a very worrying thing for some men. Therefore, it is very important to respect his sensitive mood on this matter. Psychologists believe that an effective way to relieve men of this concern is to express the same concern about their hair loss. This will make the other person feel that hair loss is not really a big deal, it will make him feel more secure about your relationship.
Once married, you will lose your space
Women can respond to men's concerns with the following actions. Go to the gym with your girlfriend; Have a drink and chat with friends; Delve into one's hobbies. Make him feel like he's just a part of your entire life, not the whole.
When you're not with him, keep your schedule full, so that you always have something meaningful to do. Only in this way can we create a space for the real "two person time". When he can't see you all the time, he's eager to be included in your schedule.
I don't deserve her
"She is the cutest, smartest, and most beautiful woman I have ever met. I should be happy about it, but I often feel under pressure inside. Sometimes I feel that her true love should not be me, but someone who is more worthy of her. I often feel that I have shortcomings and shortcomings in some aspects."
A woman should pay attention to letting the other person understand what she likes and appreciates about him. Women often speak up about each other's shortcomings. Little does it know that speaking more about each other's strengths is more helpful in cultivating feelings. In the email sent to him, please list "the ten places I most appreciate you"; When something about him makes you proud, be sure to let him know; Or you can often send text messages to cheer him up for his work and career.