There is a door in a man's inner world that a woman can never open. That is the door for a man to protect his love, which hides his true views on the relationship between men and women. A man does not want a woman to see his inner interpretation of the relationship between men and women, because it will give a disillusioned blow to a woman full of fantasy complex. But no matter how well a man talks, his most real idea is nothing more than these ten points:
1. The relationship between men and women is often dominated by women rather than men.
In the face of the woman he loves, men will show great fear and insecurity. As the saying goes, "men chase women across mountains; women chase men across veil." There is another interesting phenomenon: among early overseas students, the women who abandoned their husbands first are often the women who first pursued their husbands.
2. In the process of communication, it is not absolutely the man who takes the initiative and the woman who is passive.
For quite a lot of time, men prefer women to take the initiative. Because men are used to taking the lead in their careers, but when they enter the safe haven of the two worlds, women's courage and positive attitude will make men find a balance in their tired struggle.
3. The reason why men will spare no effort to pursue something is often not because they like it, but because they can't accept failure.
A man with a career and ambition will not spend too much energy to fight for a hopeless thing. So, if you like such a man, don't play emotional tricks with him. Sometimes a man will try his best to pursue a woman, not necessarily because he loves her deeply, but because he can't accept failure. In this case, once he got the woman, he would not have the strength to create the same romance as before, unless he still felt insecure.
4. If a woman is too active to flatter a man, he will not refuse, but he will not grow old with you.
If you find that the man you like is not interested in you at all, don't feel aggrieved to be with him willingly. Because some men will not refuse to come, but his heart will never belong to you. So for such a man, give up early.
5. Men will not allow their women to cheat no matter how much they spend their time.
Some women will retaliate with their cheating after their husbands cheat, thinking that "you are not loyal to me, and I am not loyal to you". However, such "revenge" is often self-defeating. Because men don't think they are great for a moment, but they can't tolerate their lover even once "betrayal".
6. Emotionally, men are as good at jealousy as women.
Almost 99% of men are not as broad-minded as they appear, and men are also jealous. But when this jealousy is not very strong, he will cover it up cleverly, so as to pretend a generous face. In fact, men do not want to be defeated in love, and they will not tolerate the people they love being acquired by others. The more insecure a man is, the more jealous he is.
7. Men are animals. If possible, they will never be willing to have sex with only one woman in their life.
In the eyes of men, sex and love are two different things. Women always have sex with a man because of love; Men, on the other hand, tend to have sex with any woman out of desire.
9. Men are animals with extremely strong self-esteem.
If you want to enter his world, first satisfy his self-esteem. A man's self-esteem is the one that can't be hurt by others. He is not afraid of many failures, but he is afraid of hurting his self-esteem. So whenever you get along with a man, don't touch his bottom line.
10. Men will never learn to say the declaration of love in the ear of women
No matter how much a man loves you, he will not always say "I love you". This is determined by their personality. They don't like things that are disgusting or unsaid, and prefer to show their love in action.