Post Date December, 03 2023
Men get rid of the shadow of lovelorn love more slowly than women, but this reason is still just an excuse. Generally speaking, such a man is relatively nostalgic. The reason why he refuses to marry his current girlfriend is probably because he thinks that his current girlfriend is not as good as his former girlfriend.
"The last love has cast a great shadow on me. I need time to recover, so I hope you can wait for me for two or three years."
Although men are slower than women to get rid of the shadow of lovelorn love, this reason is still just an excuse. Generally speaking, such a man is relatively nostalgic. The reason why he refuses to marry his current girlfriend is probably because he thinks that his current girlfriend is not as good as his former girlfriend. Men also have a competitive heart in marriage, and they also hope to be "better than one". Of course, in the two or three years reserved, he will fall in love with you, heal your wounds and continue to find better people. Of course, as a nostalgic man, he is still very likely to marry you (as long as his ex-girlfriend doesn't jump out and steal love again).
"I don't think I have the ability to provide you with good living conditions."
Such an excuse is the favorite of the standard "only love and not marry" type men. A man, facing his beloved woman, will only be desperate to have her first. He would rather she suffer with himself than enjoy happiness with other men. If you are in love for the purpose of marriage, you should think of a way out in the face of this man's reason for refusing to marry.
"My parents don't agree."
Although marriage without parents' approval is always difficult to obtain happiness, a man who regards his parents' opinions as the holy grail of marriage or not is enough to show that this man is not mature enough and has too much dependence on his parents. You can't expect him to defend your rights in front of his parents. When marrying such a man, a woman should not think that the most difficult hurdle is "father-in-law hurdle", but that in the long years to come, his lack of sense of responsibility will make you very tired and hard.
"I think your parents look down on me."
The more grumpy a man is, the more he will use this reason to refuse a woman's marriage request. Of course, such men's self-esteem is undoubtedly strong, but behind such men's self-esteem, there is a little inferiority complex. He has his male chauvinism complex. After marriage, he will inevitably dictate to women. If you agree that Xiaofu is obedient to him, if not, he will make a round of rage at home!
(Intern editor: Zhao Minqing)
