Post Date December, 03 2023
Men are actually more childish than women, because as men, they always have the idea of being the whole world. Who knows that being childish, combined with being domineering and stubborn, can even harm your physical and mental health.
1. Thinking that one's lofty ideals can be realized
Even though I am already a big and small person, I can't do anything and have a series of falls. I thought I didn't get a chance, and as soon as I had a chance, I could immediately soar. Sitting in a small tavern drinking what "waiter" is fond of talking about is actually a big soap bubble, even when others don't know.
2. Thinking that men are not bad, women do not love
Actually, it's just a daydream, but some men still do it. Even more infuriating is that if you really want to be bad, you can simply be completely bad and scare away women. But unfortunately, there are many men who want to learn bad but don't like it, or who are not as bad as small, deceiving women into countless tears of sympathy.
3. I thought I could marry a wealthy girl, and from then on, the worm became a dragon
The phenomenon of 'being a big shot' is now also popular among some inexperienced young men, who want to make a fortune overnight by relying on a woman's pomegranate skirt. I don't know if the 'soft rice' is delicious, but it needs to have a 'natural beauty'. Sometimes, if you become a horse or a cow first, you won't be able to turn over again.
4. I thought climbing that mountain was higher than this one
Such a man never knows that there is someone out there, and sometimes he just hides his ears and steals the bell. They treat their careers, love, women, and so on, and when they climb this mountain, they feel that the mountain is too high. The result of not being satisfied is that one is half exhausted and not getting any truth.
5. Thought women were cheap
Men with such thoughts deserve to be troubled by some powerful women. In terms of emotions, men are not at all stronger than women. In fact, when it comes to breaking up, there are more men who speak harshly and more women who act harshly. Getting women who love themselves to fight back with the Jedi, isn't it just men who make themselves cheap?
6. Thought I would never grow old
Men often refer to women over forty as "tofu dregs", but in fact, men over forty sometimes feel inferior to even tofu dregs, both physically and psychologically. Do you think being surrounded by young women won't make you old anymore? When you want to prove something, you're already old.
7. Thinking that friends are like siblings, women are like clothes
This is still the mindset of many men nowadays, who value friendship more than their parents and wives. If it is true friendship, it should be cherished, but it is your wife who is always by your side in the same boat. Don't be without Liu Bei's good luck, but you have to learn from him and throw away your wife. How many do you think you can still have?
8. I thought even if I were an old man, there would still be young women loving me
Even if there is such a thing, it is mostly for the sake of money. Don't naively think that you are an "old playboy", but in the end, you can't afford to play. Money can never buy a true relationship, and at that time, you were no longer young. It's time to think about your old age.
9. Thinking that a lover is always better than a wife
This is just like the joke that "mice are afraid of cats, it's just a rumor", but some men are obsessed with it. A lover is just a painting, wearing it on your body is cold, hanging it on the wall is a nightmare. Don't rush up without realizing it, it will only be your wife who will help you collect the body.
10. I thought I didn't even have what was mentioned above, and then I opened my mouth and cursed
In fact, some childish ideas are not scary, and who has never been naive? The scary thing is that they never think they are childish, persist until their seventies and eighties, and cannot listen to any different opinions. Hurting others too much is a sin, hurting oneself too much will make one foolish.
Don't think you can cheat women if you can't make money, become a thinker if you can't do something, become a fan when you get old, and women will always take you seriously. Only by being down-to-earth can one go further, and only by truly giving can one obtain true love. In this era, heroes can still be achieved. The key to becoming a man is to straighten his spine, not give up dignity, and not abandon responsibility. Men, please be independent, also be strong, and also show self-respect.
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)
