Post Date December, 02 2023
Two people will inevitably quarrel after a long time together, and the most hurtful weapon in the world is the tongue. So, what should be paid attention to when couples and lovers quarrel together? Friction actually allows both parties to have a more comprehensive understanding, and only when there is a technical argument can it not harm each other's feelings.
Psychological Common Sense: Striving for Skills
1、 Use "my sentence" to express opinions
Remember, all opinions are what you think, and don't treat them as objective truths.
2、 Don't talk about privacy
Everyone has their own privacy that cannot be touched, even if the other person is your closest lover.
3、 Give the other person a chance to speak
Don't keep talking and not giving the other person a chance. This will only keep the other person from venting and bury resentment in their hearts.
4、 Don't sneer or criticize others
Satire can be very destructive to emotions. When one person satirizes another, it is expressing a feeling of contempt. Now that we are already contemptuous, how can we continue to love each other?
5、 Leave some buffer time for each other
When people are excited, it is always easy to say wrong things and do wrong things. Try to calm down with each other and don't let things get hotter.
