I often hear people exclaim: It's great to be alive! However, while proclaiming the preciousness of life, people are also using some bad habits to destroy the existence of life. Perhaps only by lying in the hospital bed can one truly understand the importance of health. However, after the disease is dispelled, people will recover: after healing the scars, they forget the pain.
Men, disguised as strong on the surface, are actually a more vulnerable group than women. A woman who loves men, or a man who loves himself, must understand the ten most common physiological weaknesses as a man:
1、 Likes to be silent and unwilling to initiate conversations with loved ones.
Men like to bury things in their hearts until they rot or forget, and even stingy to say 'I love you' to their wives. Men consider themselves responsible enough, and for this reason, they are accustomed to reporting good news without worrying in front of their loved ones; Men are deeply self proclaimed, and for this reason, they are accustomed to saying a few words in front of strangers.
In fact, men are a group of people who are unwilling to communicate, and there are too many unspoken secrets hidden in their hearts. Because I don't want to vent, I often sigh and sigh. Women are much better than men in this regard, because they cannot hide things in their hearts and dare to express their emotions. The tendency to be silent and unwilling to communicate is not a manifestation of introversion. Over time, one's mood may become unstable, thereby accelerating aging.
For this, men should often nag their wives or parents about their inner thoughts. Of course, as a woman, if you find your husband often silent, it's important to actively communicate with him instead of criticizing him for being dull or growling at his silent behavior.
2、 Kidney failure before aging brings endless troubles to men.
After seven or eight years of marriage, men will suddenly feel back pain and leg cramps. Men mistakenly think that busyness is causing trouble, but it may not be the case. Men will say, 'After marriage, I have always maintained my pre marriage lifestyle habits. Why do I have to reach middle age when my abilities are not up to my expectations?'?
My interpretation is that during school, men tend to walk a lot every day due to financial reasons or high energy levels, while running is an intangible form of exercise. However, after middle age, when you go out and drive, lazy people quietly spread inside your body. Lack of exercise is the biggest killer of premature kidney failure in men.
In the first few years of marriage, laziness is fine, but there is a foundation left by exercise during school.
After middle age, it's strange to have no foundation and no weakness.
For this reason, as a man, no matter how busy he is, he must squeeze out time every day for physical exercise.
3、 Unconsciously, hair decreases or even fades.
How many men hope to have a bald head? As is well known, balding can bring many troubles to men, and the most direct worry is that from the appearance, they tend to be a bit anxious. Male baldness includes uneven diet and high levels of stress. Therefore, building a harmonious marriage life is particularly important for men.
What is a happy life?
Firstly, men should endure loneliness, withstand temptation, and view the people and things around them with a simple mindset; Secondly, it is important to have a reasonable wife. People should understand early on that happiness is the most important thing. Although it may be related to money, do not make yourself a slave to it. The main reason why contemporary people are unhappy is because they value money too much.
4、 Bad breath keeps wives and friends away.
Dialogue is a necessary means of communication between people, but why some people keep people away is not because their words are not pleasant to listen to, nor because their speech is not artistic enough, but because the smell emitted from the mouth during speaking makes others unbearable. A straightforward friend will expose your flaws in person, while a tactful friend will remind you roundly. However, the person you first meet will not consider becoming friends with you.
From this, it can be seen that bad breath to a large extent can cause men to lose too many friends, without friends, which is equivalent to being limited in their careers. Setting aside friends, bad breath can also affect the relationship between couples. Do you think your wife doesn't even have the courage to talk to you, how can she talk about running a happy family with you?
5、 After marriage, weight quickly increases and it is difficult to lose.
In the previous year, both women and men felt that men were quite capable and wealthy. However, the cruel reality tells men that obesity not only causes many behavioral inconveniences, but also causes many diseases. In recent years, women's aesthetic values have also undergone significant changes, and their bellies are no longer the capital of men, but are referred to as overweight.
For this reason, more and more men are starting to work hard to lose weight, only to find that as long as they are a little greedy at the table, the weight loss benefits of more than ten days will be wasted. The key is that losing weight is a painful process, and not all men have this patience.
6、 Men with high blood pressure are more likely to suffer from heart disease.
The three highs we often refer to are not high positions, high salaries, or tall stature, but high blood pressure, high blood sugar, and high blood lipids. At present, the "three high" population can be seen everywhere, with the majority of people suffering from "high" being middle-aged or above. They will preach to young people through experience, but how can young people listen to the advice of others who are only crazy about playing and drinking?
For this reason, when a group of young people reach middle age, they realize that they will not listen to the elderly and suffer losses in front of them. Once you have three highs, you will become hesitant in eating and drinking. The key is that high blood pressure can easily lead to heart disease in men. It can be seen that this is all caused by the lack of strict control over the 'mouth' when young.
7、 The root of life often encounters some troubles.
If there is a problem with the root of the life, or if personal hygiene is not emphasized, or if a loved one does not maintain hygiene, it may also be caused by catching a fire or other reasons. When the root of life is abnormal, men usually don't even want their wives to know.
To this end, using various lies as excuses, he began to refuse intimacy between husband and wife. At this point, the man is panicked and may think that he has contracted an incurable disease, which hinders face and is unwilling to go to the hospital for examination. Carrying it with a sense of self destruction and helplessness.
In fact, it is normal for men to have some abnormalities in their lifelines. If they really don't want to go to the hospital for examination, they can definitely find the problem through the internet. The key is not to hide it from your partner. Because hiding behind the scenes not only destroys self-confidence, but also leads to a completely avoidable dispute with your partner with doubts. Based on this, it is hoped that couples should clean their bodies before and after intimacy. Many people believe that cleaning the body after love is a form of disgust towards the lover, and this absurd idea should be changed in any era.
8、 Frequent digestive system malfunctions.
A person is like a machine, and the digestive system is like a lubricant. Our stomach bears too much sour, sweet, bitter, and spicy food every day, coupled with the depletion of function due to age, and the digestive system does not have any problems, that is called adversity.
For this reason, health experts often remind us to eat less spicy food and more plain food. But how many people can truly achieve it? Many people are thin when they are young and fat when they are middle-aged. Laziness is one aspect, and more importantly, the degradation of metabolic function and excessive casualness in diet.
Food is not only for solving hunger, but also for tasting delicious food. However, in order for the digestive system to function properly, it is necessary to become a moderate eater. The main reason why women's digestive system is better than men's is due to excessive alcohol consumption. In fact, excessive alcohol consumption can greatly stimulate the digestive system.
9、 Snoring like thunder can cause wife insomnia and make friends laugh.
Snoring is a disease, but it usually does not have a significant impact on one's daily life. However, it has a significant impact on one's wife, as your deafening snoring can wake her up in the middle of the night, cause her to suffer from insomnia, or lead her to sleep in separate rooms with you in anger. This is one of them.
Men are all social animals, and it is inevitable that they will share a bed with their friends and colleagues due to drunkenness or business trips. Your snoring will not only become a topic for friends to discuss after dinner, but the key is that once this matter is spread, who dares to share a bedroom with you in the future?
10、 When young, it is difficult to quit smoking and drinking in middle age.
Chinese people become addicted to smoking and drinking, usually during their middle or high school years. People of that age group, without a correct outlook on life, believe that smoking and drinking are true men, and thus develop the habit of smoking and drinking. After middle age, physical function decreases, life pressure increases, and getting drunk delays many important things. Therefore, men realize the drawbacks of smoking and drinking, but they do not have the perseverance to quit smoking and drinking.