Post Date December, 03 2023
Some people think that what I say is a cowardice, but in fact, it's not because everyone needs a place to rely on, because there are many things in life that can make people feel heartbroken, exhausted, and tired. They all need a place to rely on and rest. Relying on is not exclusive to women, and men also need it, sometimes even more than women.
We often hear women say that they want to find a solid arm to lean on and receive comfort and firmness. In fact, men also need it. They are not looking for a stronger arm than themselves, but for a soft resting place that allows them to rest peacefully. It is not a solid but a warm dwelling.
A man's dependence is different from a woman's dependence. His dependence comes from a gentle greeting, a simple intimacy, or a woman's coquettish behavior, or a woman's concern and complaint for comfort.
Men need a gentle support
Sometimes men need a woman's nagging, a woman's complaining, and even more so, a woman's endless narration of their day's experiences. You may see a big man lying in the arms of his own woman, listening to the woman's words, just like a child listening to a mother's story so seriously, and with so much drowsiness. They listen to women not to know anything, but to listen to music and enjoy a kind of expression from the bottom of their loved ones' hearts.
Men need to understand and care more, even a trivial question is a kind of beauty.
Some people say they dislike their women's nagging, which is true because this woman's nagging is a topic that annoys men. It really makes men feel that they are not listening to their own woman's words, but rather listening to a kind of noise.
Men are still afraid of loneliness. Even more afraid than women. They are afraid that their women will no longer speak, nor will they say anything in their hearts. They are afraid of their women's departure, and even if they leave for a short period of time, they will feel uneasy.
Men need a gentle support
Men's dependence also comes from their attachment and loyalty to their emotions. They feel that attachment and loyalty to emotions are more important than anything else, because their biggest fear is a backyard fire, which will cause them to lose a belief in the meaning of life. The meaning of life comes from the loyalty of human nature. Once men feel the lack of human nature, they will feel that there is no longer anything to trust in this world, and then they will become a walking corpse, with no happiness to speak of.
Men's reliance also comes from respect, as they believe that emotional respect for each other is second only to loyalty and persistence towards their emotions. They believe that all emotions come from persistent loyalty and mutual respect. This respect comes from subtle expressions, and what is missing is a grand ceremony. Perhaps it's just a simple birthday gift, perhaps it's just a simple gesture of respect for oneself. Sometimes they don't need such specific things, just a genuine concern from the heart. This is both vanity and practicality for men.
