Men must know: 7 tips to prevent wives from cheating
1. Prevent the wife from becoming the leader's celebrity without reason
If the wife is not a competent person in the unit, she has no special relationship background. And suddenly you become an important person in the unit or a celebrity of the leader. You often accompany wine, play, and travel. Then you should pay attention to how many question marks do you have to make? At this time, your wife often says that you need to work overtime. If the wife was once unlucky and now the gold finally shines, then don't worry.
2. Pay attention to whether the wife's life pattern changes
Once a woman has an affair and has extramarital feelings, it will not be calm. If a man cannot be found for a long time, it can only be said that a man is too stupid. If a woman is outside, she occasionally plays extramarital sex with others, and most of them are improvised, which will not affect the normal life of both parties.
But once a woman has love outside marriage, she will definitely have a big change in the law of life. For example, phone calls, text messages, rules of going out and mood changes, etc. So when a woman has an extramarital affair, she should try not to change this rule at first, but with the passage of time and the deepening of feelings, it is difficult to maintain this calm. When women often find excuses to justify their actions, men should pay more attention.
3. Don't do anything to hurt your wife
Many women who have affairs are often because their husbands are not good to themselves. Of course, the most likely thing is that their husbands have done things that hurt their wives deeply. For example, if the husband beats and scolds his wife, cheats his wife, or has a lover outside, or the husband doesn't care about his wife very much, and the wife is pregnant, the husband also doesn't know.
After these injuries, the wife will not attach great importance to the marriage relationship and will not actively refuse the temptation of the outside world. On the contrary, when you meet a man who is good to you from outside, you will not necessarily choose the best in comparison.
4. Make yourself better
Men can't take the responsibility they should take, so women are easy to cheat. For example, in today's society, the responsibilities of men are not too heavy. Buy a house, raise children, provide for the elderly, and so on. Some men even have to raise wives. When men have limited abilities, sometimes they may not be able to bear the responsibility of supporting their families or making women behave in a big way.
Under such circumstances, if the feelings between husband and wife cannot be deepened enough to tolerate or ignore these situations, women are likely to ask for help. And the biggest resource and effort for women to ask for help is likely to be physical and emotional. So, if men make themselves better and don't let women worry about these aspects, naturally, they will reduce the possibility of women cheating.
5. See more advantages of women
When men play a leading role at home, they should see more of the advantages of women, because when women lack confidence, their mood will be depressed. In this case, if they get the affirmation of other men and find more confidence in interpersonal communication, they may be thinking outward.
The more men see the advantages of women, the more confident women will be, so that women can take the initiative to take the responsibility of the family. Especially when women are in love, most of them hear the good words of men. But after marriage, this feeling is reversed, which must make women feel cheated, so they no longer believe in the so-called love. If you find self-confidence outside, you must treat your home as hell.
6. Have more time together
The traditional concept of Chinese people is that men dominate the outside and women dominate the inside. This understanding provides an excuse for men to stay out and even stay home at night. Many women do housework. It seems that women's position is at home. But if a woman stays at home alone for a long time, without the company of a man, she will be lonely and uninteresting. After a long time, she will think of finding a companion for recreation or participating in some social activities, and go out from home.
Under the psychological effect of loneliness, women are likely to be tempted by other men when they go out. Because of this kind of opportunity, the chance of having an affair will increase. If a woman doesn't go outside, how can she have an affair? So, to prevent women from having an affair, men should first take care of their families, comfort women, and keep their warmth at home after leaving home. In this way, women will naturally reduce the chance of having an affair.
7. Cultivate feelings with your wife and enjoy romance
Those who have been married for many years and can still send roses to their wives are not necessarily romantic by nature, but only those who know how to love. If you don't want to improve your relationship, will you send roses? Therefore, when couples send roses, they are either modest or happy.
I believe that if you cultivate feelings with your wife, you don't need to talk about formal romance. Only when the feelings are good, can there naturally be romantic interest. Therefore, emotional cultivation is the first priority. With feelings, you can resist interference. Like radar, the instrument itself has poor hardware and performance, but it has no interference. It can't work properly. What can I do?
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)