Post Date December, 03 2023
According to Taiwanese media reports, 83-year-old Thai director Padiwiji recently married a 38-year-old beautiful businessman who has been in love for 4 months. Their marriage, which is 45 years apart, has become a hot topic among Thai people.
Event Review
Only a few months after the original partner passed away, the 83-year-old director married a 38-year-old charming wife
Padiwiji, who is hailed by the media as the father of Thai action films, has been searching for a "partner to spend the rest of his life with" since his first mate passed away in April last year. At a birthday party last August, he met his current wife. He expressed love for the bride at first sight and immediately pursued her. After more than four months of dating, the two decided to get married. On December 28th last year, the two got married in a high-profile manner.
The bride revealed that Padiwiji was very considerate and kind-hearted towards her, so she decided to entrust her for life. However, the age difference of 45 years between the two has caused netizens to mock "true love does not matter age", which has also sparked discussions in Thailand.
Expert opinions
If you want to marry a young wife, first ask yourself if you can hold on and live
Men all like young people, which seems to be a consensus. No matter how old they are, bringing a young and beautiful woman around seems to be a dream for many men, and many people regard it as a symbol of success.
But like belongs to like, if you marry to be your wife, that's a different story.
Some time ago, many chronophilia in the entertainment industry were struggling. In front of them were Wang Quan'an and Zhang Yuqi, and behind them were Wu Qihua and Shi Yangzi. This is a typical chronophilia. The man is 21 years older than the woman. He has been married for seven years, but he has been separated for four years. This time, the gap between the Thai famous director and his wife at the age of 45 is not only chronophilia, but also "love between son and son".
But everything has its pros and cons. Everyone can see the benefits of marrying a young wife, and those who experience the drawbacks of marrying a young wife are unwilling to say it - speaking it out is like slapping oneself in the face. Men who have experienced the hardships of marrying young wives are unwilling to speak up, causing a group of men who have not experienced the hardships to be eager to try. This situation is similar to Qian Zhongshu's description of marriage: people outside the city want to rush in, while people in the city want to escape. But the people here specifically refer to men.
So let's talk about it today - marrying a young wife? First, consider whether you hold or not!
Firstly, physiologically, men have the strongest sexual desire between the ages of 20 and 30, and begin to decline after the age of 30, while women have the strongest sexual desire between the ages of 30 and 40. Imagine how a man in his 80s can satisfy a woman in her thirties? If you desire dissatisfaction, you will cause trouble.
Secondly, psychologically, young girls are easily fascinated by the maturity, stability, generosity, and knowledge of older men, admired by their life experiences, and of course, it cannot be denied that economics is also a reason. Most older men already have a solid economic foundation, which is also why many girls prefer older men. But as you get older, a woman's psychology will undergo subtle changes. Your age brings many advantages to you, but also brings many disadvantages, such as aging and physical decline, such as relying on old age to sell old age, such as stubbornness and boredom, and the subtle flaws of white jade. The human characteristic is to be accustomed to white jade, but hold onto the subtle flaws - gradually, the advantages that initially moved her no longer stand out, and those shortcomings become more and more prominent, She will find it increasingly unbearable.
Furthermore, young girls are still in the process of growth, so there are many variables involved. When her own thoughts and concepts have not yet formed, she will listen to everything you say that she thinks is right, very obedient and lovely. But as she grows up and has her own thoughts and opinions, she doesn't want to follow your arrangements for everything. Just like Wu Qihua's wife Shi Yangzi, who had spoken well to her at the beginning, asking her to stay at home and teach her children after marriage. She agreed happily, but after marriage, she changed her mind and wanted to become an independent woman. How can we deal with this?
Of course, many people will say something about Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan. Yes, they are chronophilia, but the premise is that the two people are very suitable and matched in all aspects. Yang Zhenning certainly married Weng Fan not because of her youth, but because of mutual appreciation and love between the two people.
In the end, marrying a wife should be based on suitability and emotions, not just on youthful beauty as the criterion of choice, let alone just to "bring a young wife and have face by your side". You have spent the majority of your life, be careful to lay the foundation for the misfortune of your later years.
