Post Date December, 02 2023
When the wife is addicted to shopping
According to the analysis of psychologists, shopping addiction is mostly a compensatory behavior caused by dissatisfaction with certain aspects, or a lonely feeling and empty mind, so as to escape from reality and get pleasure through shopping. Find out the crux of her depression, take some time to accompany her, encourage her to learn computer, cooking, flower arrangement, tea ceremony and so on. Shopping is the business of idle people. She has been busy and has no time to engage in shopping. In the face of a wife who would rather die than go shopping, your wallet is her enemy. It is better to take the method of breaking up the whole into parts, and spend most of your monthly salary on buying houses and cars by stages, and investing in stocks. The little money left can only make the wife unable to "compete".
Finally, don't forget that love can melt everything, including the wife's shopping addiction. Take care of her, affirm her, relive the feelings of love, watch old movies, go for a ride in the suburbs, and remember to stay away from the shopping danger zone. Although shopping with your wife is a headache more than getting drunk, it's good that your wife uses her pickiness in shopping. If they use their mind to pick men, God, you can only be a "diamond king" all your life.
When the wife brings up the old story again
Marriage experts tell us that men want to be the first man of women; Women want to be the last woman of men. Although women want to be the "emotional terminator" of men, the paradox is that they will be as curious as archaeologists and will always have an indescribable interest in exploring men's past romance. When the wife said softly, "Honey, I don't want any secrets between us", you must not be cheated. Smart men will never easily challenge women's "measurement". If you confess an old love affair with a soft heart for a moment, you will soon know that confessing the past is actually hard on you. Women will not only interpret the imagination, but also forget it. Of course, "death without action" only applies to the wife who knows nothing about you in the past. If she has heard a little about your previous love, or if you and your old lover's photo love letter have been found, avoid the most important things, take the least of them, and dilute them, you will be able to escape completely.
In addition, the best way for a woman to eliminate hostility is to belittle and slander her "rival". If you really can't be so "unconscionable", then use more imagination, think of the past as unforgettable, and think of your wife as your favorite idol, until even you think this is the truth.
When a woman opens her mouth, the truth shuts up. When your wife is still bitter about your old love, you should repent and apologize for your past, no matter whether you are wrong or not, until your wife smiles and lets you live.
When the wife is "full of war"
Men sometimes wonder why women who are so considerate before marriage give themselves the feeling of dancing with wolves after marriage? Remember the famous saying of the writer Oscar Wilde: "Women are loved, not understood." So don't be unreasonable with your wife, just talk honey. When she suspects that you have an affair, don't try to explain and clarify it. That will only darken the situation. Instead, put on a look of serious injury: "How can you trust me? Honey, only you are everything in my life." Maybe even you feel numb, but most wives will eat this.
When she makes trouble without reason, you should keep in mind the following principles: she runs out in anger, you should follow her closely, and protect her in a busy place. In case she drives you out, you might as well go to the chess room of the teahouse for a long time, and be happy and quiet, and then go back to repent when her anger is gone. When you forget your wedding anniversary or her birthday, you should hit your head hard: "It's unforgivable!" No matter how exaggerated you are, she will not be disgusted. Of course, you can also comfort yourself by saying that a good wife makes men too comfortable and easy to fail, while a "hot" wife makes men keen on greater things, such as Socrates, Tolstoy, Mozart, and so on. So when you become eloquent, patient and intelligent, you will feel that God is always the most fair.
In fact, in the final analysis, marriage will bring different feelings to men and women. When the long days have worn away the romance of men and the beauty of women, don't let the previous infatuation turn into depression, and feel it again with a new enthusiasm. You will find that the wife who has been with you is still so emotional, frank, warm and kind.
★ "Click" the gentle love words of the wife
·No matter what happens in the future, no matter how things change, you will always be my favorite person.
·I must live one more minute than you, let you hold my hand and leave, I don't want to have a second of your pain and loneliness.
·I have met countless women in my life, but only you have made me so shocked and loved.
·No matter when, I will always protect you.
·As long as I can be with you, nothing will matter anymore, and I am not afraid to pay any price
Remember, when men learn these love words, they will become invincible emotional "killers".
According to the analysis of psychologists, shopping addiction is mostly a compensatory behavior caused by dissatisfaction with certain aspects, or a lonely feeling and empty mind, so as to escape from reality and obtain pleasure through shopping. Find out the crux of her depression, take some time to accompany her, encourage her to learn computer, cooking, flower arrangement, tea ceremony and so on. Shopping is the business of idle people. She has been busy and has no time to engage in shopping. In the face of a wife who would rather die than go shopping, your wallet is undoubtedly her enemy. It is better to adopt the method of breaking up the whole into parts, and spend most of the monthly salary on buying houses and cars by stages, and investing in stocks. The little money left can only make the wife unable to "compete".
Finally, don't forget that love can melt everything, including the wife's shopping addiction. Take care of her, affirm her, relive the feelings of love, watch old movies, go for a ride in the suburbs, and remember to stay away from the shopping danger zone. Although shopping with your wife is a headache more than getting drunk, it's good that your wife uses her pickiness in shopping. If they use their mind to pick men, God, you can only be a "diamond king" all your life.
(Intern editor: Chen Hao)
