Many women will feel that the relationship between husband and wife is getting colder and colder after marriage. Sometimes even the husband shows that he doesn't like himself very much. Why? Didn't the wife think about what she should not say when she was with men? You know, here is a summary of the words that men hate women most, so as to help women survive the marriage crisis.
Men hate women's five words most
No matter the relationship between husband and wife, or the relationship between colleagues and friends, few people pay attention to the emotional world of men, and women may inadvertently hurt men with one or two careless words. Psychological research has found that women care most about their emotional connection with others, while men care most about their ability. Complaining about her husband's incompetence and blaming her male colleagues for their poor grades, it is better not to say such words casually to avoid hurting feelings. Wu Danru, a best-selling author of psychology in Taiwan, pointed out that there are five words that most upset men.
1. "If you have seed...". "Hit me if you have the seed", "Show me if you have the seed", these words have greatly bruised the self-esteem of men, and are also the most hated "provocative method" of men. They feel that if they can't do it, they are incompetent.
2. "I told you earlier". "I told you earlier that it doesn't work", "I told you earlier that your friend is not a good man", men hate the superiority and the sneer of women when they say these words. Even if a woman is kind and comforting, it will backfire.
3. "You are" or "Every time you". The simple three words seem to have no special meaning, but they are like judges who are making mistakes for prisoners and putting some bad "labels" on men. In the process of getting along, these words that women casually say will greatly hurt men's self-esteem, as if saying "you are hopeless".
4. "You don't love me". Women keep asking "Do you love me?" In the end, most men will say impatiently: "Love, love, love!" with a trace of helplessness in the elongated tone. Sometimes men are not very good at expressing love. When the relationship has been established, there is no need to repeat it.
5. "I have heard". Men always repeat those jokes or interesting experiences of life. Although they have told them many times, they always hope to get some response. Men are not good at words and have no new ideas, but even if they are cliches, women should learn to respect.
It is not easy for married men and women to get together. Even the best couple will become enemies or even divorce because of a few words. Then, women must remember that evil comes from the mouth, and avoid some inappropriate words leading to men's disgust.