In fact, he is only doing this to cover up a basic fact, that is, he doesn't really like you that much, so when choosing a man, you must keep your eyes open and never fall into the trap of a playboy. Now, let's take a look at the 10 ways men don't like you that much!
1. If he is passive and reserved
Perhaps he doesn't want to destroy our friendship, maybe he's shy, maybe he's inferiority complex, maybe he just doesn't know how to contact me, "... Throughout the entire process of human history, any man would not care to end his" friendship "in order to get close to you, and he couldn't be too afraid to pursue you because of his shyness and inferiority complex. The only thing he's afraid of is that he's so" indifferent "to you, He won't know how to contact your phone, email, IM, SNS, Twitter... He can use his eyes, mouth, brain, and network to find you, unless he doesn't want to find you.
Perhaps some people advocate that this is no longer the Stone Age. Girls should actively pursue the people they like, but I believe that the person who truly likes you will not make you go to great lengths to find them - because they will take the initiative to bring them to your door.
2. If he promises you but doesn't do it, even if it's just a phone call
He was really busy, so he forgot "" At least he really apologized to me "... He was very busy, about to take office as the President of the United States, with billions of dollars of business to talk about in an hour. He was so busy that he couldn't find time to call you in a day. He was so busy. There are mobile phones, speed dials, and even voice dials. Sometimes, when you don't even want to make a call, the phone just goes out of your pocket. Why don't you have time to make a call.
If you really like you, you won't forget. If you forget, it means he doesn't care about your disappointment. Busy "is a weapon of mass destruction in love, synonymous with" bastard ". Bastard is the person who uses busyness to perfunctory you. (A sane) man knows what" prioritization "means, and apologizes? Oh, there's no time to listen to his nonsense.
3. If he's ambiguous
He used to be injured before, his life is very chaotic now, he just divorced, he wants to take it slow, he's used to freedom... These are all myths, all the tricks men use to deal with girls they don't like. If he likes you, he won't be ambiguous and will declare the ownership of you to the world. He doesn't want to see your friends and family, saying it's because he's with you instead of dating your mother, He doesn't want to take you into his circle, saying that it's just a matter of two people. If he uses all the above excuses to explain the ambiguity between you, please translate it automatically as' I just want to use you to pass the time 'or' I don't really like you '.
4. If he doesn't want to be too close to you
I am a man, and if I like you, I will kiss you. "Although it feels awkward and cold, it's also true to think about it. If I like you, I should like your inner and outer selves. Do you want someone who likes you to say to you," I love you very much, let me be your spiritual friend? "... I don't think Plato would say that either.
5. If he betrays you
He drank too much "" That was just an occasional accident "" He was not careful "... There is no excuse for betrayal. Betraying this kind of thing doesn't happen accidentally. He can't say, "Oh, I accidentally fell and happened to fall into someone else's bed." Knowing that it would break the rules in love and implementing them, you should just throw him away and remind yourself that a man like him is not worth having.
6. If he's all drunk before coming to you
If he is unwilling to change for you, then he should leave, because long-term life requires sobriety.
7. If the timing is right, but he still doesn't want to get married
Perhaps it's because I'm too open-minded, "" He's under the shadow of his childhood and family, "" He's not ready yet. "Many men, women, psychologists, sociologists, anthropologists, feminists... can give a lecture criticizing the marriage system, telling you that marriage is a backward system and an ancient financial contract, but I'm sorry, Firstly, you need to understand that 'not wanting to get married' may only mean 'not wanting to get married with you', and those who say 'not wanting to get married' will definitely get married in the end, just not with you.
8. If he keeps breaking up with you and then comes to reconcile with you
Firstly, please maintain your demeanor and don't call or text him again. If you break up, it's a breakup. Don't think that as long as he comes back to find you, you can continue to chat with him, meet him, watch movies, cook for him, buy gifts, carve CDs, feed fish, greet his parents and friends, and steal his voicemail to check his call records
The person who truly likes you won't break up with you, won't toss and turn you around, so please be clear headed, unless you want to become the Yoyo champion Miss.
9. If he suddenly disappears inexplicably
Don't spend a huge amount of energy solving the "mystery of missing men". No matter what evidence and excuses you find to comfort yourself, the only fact is that he no longer wants to be with you and doesn't have the courage to speak clearly to you. Please believe, there is no secret - he is not worthy of you.
10. If he's married
There's nothing to say, at least until he gets divorced. If you still can't figure it out, then you should probably call the police - someone lost their brain.