Post Date December, 02 2023
Lao Zhao has been a little annoyed recently. At the age of 40, although he has made great achievements in his career, the quality of his sexual life has deteriorated. He had to resort to various health products, but the actual effect was very poor. Fortunately, his wife found a "good prescription". Instead of blaming her husband for being "useless", she actively comforted and encouraged him.
Slowly, Lao Zhao regained his previous initiative and vitality in his sexual life. He could not help sighing that compared with those health care products, self-confidence is the best tonic and "medicine".
Men have two kinds of feedback about sex life. If you are occasionally frustrated in your sex life, you will think that you are "no good", or even rely on food or drugs, and you will fall into a vicious circle of "the more you feel bad, the worse you are", which is "negative feedback".
On the contrary, if you feel that you are "very good", you are neither nervous nor afraid in sex life, and you are relaxed. On the contrary, your husband and wife can communicate smoothly, get better erectile quality and improve the quality of sex life, which is "positive feedback". The biggest difference between the two kinds of feedback is whether a man has enough confidence, which has a decisive role of "going to heaven and going to hell".
Therefore, instead of focusing on health food and "helpful" food, men should take good care of their confidence. Everyone has unhappy times, and sex life is also unhappy, which is related to work pressure, fatigue, mood, etc.
If you put yourself in the category of "no" when you are not happy, you really underestimate the potential of men; If the idea of "no medicine, no medicine" arises, it is even more misguided. Believe in your own strength, is the "right way".
Protect the confidence of men, and the role of wives is also crucial. Because wife is an important party to judge the quality of sexual life, and also the key to mobilize men's confidence. When the quality of sexual life is not ideal, it is also the most vulnerable time for men. The wife's gentle encouragement or cynicism will bring different effects.
Lao Zhao's wife did not blame her husband for being "weak" for the time being. Instead, she actively guided her husband and finally achieved "win-win".
