Post Date December, 02 2023
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Arguing in front of outsiders
Couples are inevitably bumpy in life, but it is important to be careful not to argue in public. Some issues argue in front of everyone, which not only cannot be solved, but also add fuel to the fire. Both parties need to save face and argue in front of everyone, which will inevitably lead to difficulties in managing the final situation.
Good couples should remember to save face for their loved ones in front of friends and family. Your attitude towards your partner determines the level of respect others have towards them. If you don't care about him/her, others will look down on him/her. As the saying goes, 'A single slap cannot make a sound'. Admit each other's mistakes and forgive each other.
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Argue in front of one's children
Avoid children when arguing, they are innocent. Husband and wife arguing is a matter of two people. Allowing children to see their parents arguing can leave a shadow in their young hearts, and can even affect their attitudes towards marriage in their studies and even as they grow up.
The relationship between parents is the key to a child's sense of security, which cannot be replaced by any material life. If a child cannot enjoy the atmosphere and feeling of love at home, their behavior will unknowingly harm the next generation.
Good couples should set an example for their children.
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Arguing when the other person is sick
Arguments also have a certain temporal nature. If the other party is sick, if the other party is feeling down, if the other party is in a difficult situation at work, arguing in these situations will only deepen the conflict between the couple.
A good couple loves each other just by loving themselves.
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Flip through the other party's old accounts
Some couples like to dig into each other's old accounts during arguments, such as past mistakes or past lovers, which can increase the intensity of the argument and lead to deeper conflicts. This is also the most foolish behavior of a couple arguing. One yard is one yard, and one should not shake out all the rotten corn and sesame seeds in a quarrel. It was originally a small matter, but the more the noise, the more complex it became.
Let bygones be history, don't bring them up again. Good couples need to learn tolerance, love, consideration, and compromise.
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Affects the other party's parents and family during arguments
When a husband and wife argue, do not harm the other party's parents and family. Arguments should not abuse each other, let alone involve the elderly on both sides. The most serious way to insult the other party's family is to quit. Respect your spouse's family, empathize with each other, equally respect both parents, and love the love we love. If you treat your loved ones sincerely, they will appreciate you from the bottom of their hearts and love you even more.
Fighting between couples is a common occurrence. Don't take it too seriously or let your parents know. Communicate and understand more, and the days are still long. When angry, think more about the other person's good intentions.
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Smashing things during arguments
When arguing, don't smash things indiscriminately. The argument is already loud, coupled with the sound of objects shattering, which is too dramatic and can disturb neighbors and scare children. Besides, it's all my own money that broke, and I have to clean up the mess on my own. If I have a reason, I won't speak loudly. When arguing, I also need to be polite. I can't help but throw the pillow, don't let the piercing collision sound shatter your two loving hearts.
Husband and wife's anger is a double-edged sword, why do good couples have to compete for high and low? Take a step back and the sky is vast.
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Saying things that hurt the other person
When arguing, one often speaks recklessly and compares one's own wife/husband to others. You see how capable other people's husbands are, and you are such a loser! You see how virtuous their wives are, you can't do anything! These words will only destroy the other party's confidence.
Good couple, refuse to hurt!
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Cooperate with death
Some couples argue and often say 'die'. What's the point of being alive? "" I don't want to live anymore! "" I'll show you when I die! "And so on, using" death "as a threat to the other party. This is a very foolish approach.
A good couple should not say such angry words.
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Hands on hitting people
When arguing, be sure to take care of your own hands. Even in anger, you need to have the least control. A slap on the face may destroy years of kindness and bring unbearable feelings to both parties. Hands touch the skin and flesh, but it hurts the soul. Skin and flesh wounds are easy to heal, but the cracks in the heart are difficult to repair.
Good couples should remember: Impulse is the devil!
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Divorce lightly
It's not easy for two people to form a family together, so don't say the word 'divorce' easily. Especially when talking about divorce during arguments, due to impulsiveness, it is inevitable to make the wrong choice and make oneself regret it for a lifetime.
It's not easy for two people to form a family together, so don't say the word 'divorce' easily. Especially when talking about divorce during arguments, due to impulsiveness, it is inevitable to make the wrong choice and make oneself regret it for a lifetime.
"Divorce" is a very sensitive word. It is dangerous to mention these words carelessly. It is easy to tear up the human bonding between husband and wife and intensify it!
