Mastering Six Strategies for Adolescent Sex Education: Mothers Don't Have to Worry About Sex Education

The issue of adolescent sex education has always puzzled Chinese parents. Many parents choose to avoid asking their children sexual questions, but when their children are curious and do wrong things, they will push all the mistakes onto their children, and the children will not listen. The real mistake is actually the guardian. How to teach adolescent sex education? Let's talk about it next.

Parents don't need to talk about color changes in sex.

Providing children with necessary sex education is a manifestation of social civilization and progress, and parents' and friends' concepts must also keep up with the times. Some parents talk about color changes in sex. As soon as I saw a scene of a lover getting intimate on TV, I quickly switched channels; In fact, if you tell your child that everything is normal because they love each other. Children will openly accept this reality.

Timely makes sex no longer mysterious.

Many parents believe that when children are young, they do not need to teach about sex, and their children may not necessarily understand. In fact, sex education is a potential silent process that should be seized from a young age. Experts believe that the best time for children to start sex education is at the age of 3-5, when they develop strong curiosity and questions about gender. For example, where do I come from? Why can my younger brother stand and urinate, but I can't

If parents miss this good opportunity to clarify their doubts with their children, it often leads to their children forming an initial sense of mystery about sex, and even forming long-term lingering feelings.

Talking about sex can also be like "playing the game".

Compared with sex education in schools, family sex education has the advantages of personalization and daily life, making it the most ideal way for children's sex education. When children ask questions about sex, parents should be frank with them like answering other questions and educate their children by stimulating their daily lives. Wang Dongmei, the author of the adolescent sex education textbook "Telling Children the Truth", believes that in order for children to better face sexual knowledge, they must be told the truth. Parents can communicate sexual knowledge to their children in a relaxed environment when they need it. This not only creates a harmonious relationship between parents and children, but also creates a beautiful and romantic adolescence for their children, using sulfur methods to avoid the invasion of negative information.

Parents should not fabricate "lies" when children are confused

Generally, children aged 3-5 begin to become aware of sex, and the most common question they ask is: Where do I come from. At this point, parents should never use "lies" such as "you were picked up from the garbage heap" or "you were born from your mother's armpit" to prevaricate. You can simply tell the child that you grow in the mother's belly. When children are in the second and third grades of primary school, they should be taught about human body structure and reproductive organs. Let children know that their parents love each other, and their father's sperm combines with their mother's egg cells to grow in their mother's womb. Boys and girls in the upper grades of primary school are often interested in gender relationships. If parents are more democratic and bright, children often do not bury confusion in their hearts.