Married to a poor husband, the family members felt ashamed of the wedding, and no one attended. Five years later, we drove a luxury car back to the door, and their attitude changed greatly

When I drove home in a luxury car, my parents stood at the door to greet me. The moment I got off, the sound of firecrackers at the door made me jump. Next, seven aunts and eight aunts crowded in, each with a kind word and a mouth like wiping honey. On this side, 'Praise me for having the vision to find such a good husband', and on the other side, 'I see that my husband is someone who does great things and has great achievements, but on the other hand, he is not a mortal'.

My cousin touched my car with a light in his eyes and said, "Sister, why don't you want this car for 1.8 million yuan. I gave him a thumbs up to praise his foresight. He was excited to take selfies with his phone and car, but his aunt picked up his ear and scolded him for being useless. My parents couldn't help but smile at their actions. Nowadays, my husband and I have become objects of worship in their eyes, but we have no sense of happiness. Instead, we feel that they love vanity. My thoughts flew back to before my wedding, and that scene is still unforgettable to me.

My husband and I are classmates and a college couple. We talked for four years, but our parents opposed us for four years. They think my husband was born in a rural area, with no family background, no background, and a poor appearance. I won't have a good life with him in the future, and most importantly, they can't afford to lose him. Indeed, in terms of appearance, he may not be considered handsome. He has a small head, square face, small eyes, and is average in stature. However, based on my understanding of him, he is a successful person with great potential. I think finding a responsible man is always a hundred times better than marrying a promiscuous wealthy second generation.

However, my ideas did not receive recognition from my parents. They teamed up with their relatives to "attack" me, and even a sarcastic remark from each person could drown me. My aunt pointed at my husband's head and scolded him, "I don't want to have the face to seduce my niece, nor do I look at your poor appearance; On the other hand, he turned around and scolded me, "Why are you so inconspicuous? Can you have a man like this? If you want to eat with him in the future, your parents can't afford to lose him. I looked back at my parents with grievances, their indifferent gaze, and my heart was trembling.

They ran on us and mocked us, but I endured and still insisted on marrying my husband. Later on, when I got pregnant, my mother's family even scolded me so much that I got out of this house and didn't make a fool of myself. On the day of the wedding, no one from my mother's family came to bless me, only a few good friends came to help me. I cried in frustration, and my husband encouraged me. Only when I succeed will they look up to us. After marriage, I gave birth to a baby and left it for my mother-in-law to take care of. My husband and I went to Shenzhen to work, saved money, and went back to my hometown to start a business.

We both suffered everything and set up a chicken farm. The chicken manure made me vomit like a mess, but I endured no matter how bitter, tired, or dirty it was. Compared to the sarcastic language of my mother and family, this kind of pain is nothing. After earning our first bucket of gold, we contracted the orchard and planted greenhouse vegetables. Anyway, we would do whatever we wanted to make money, and we would work from dawn to dusk. In the end, we bought a 200 square meter large house in the county town. The house in our hometown was built like a small villa. For business needs, my husband and I also bought a good car. In a flash, I haven't been home for five years, and no one on my parents' end has given me a phone call. My neighbor's daughter and I are friends, and I have been learning about my parents' situation through her over the years.

I brought 200000 yuan to discuss with my husband and went home to see my parents. Blood is thicker than water, and this is an inseparable bond. As soon as I entered the door, my parents welcomed me, followed by a group of relatives who had already inquired about my grades today. However, they were too full of words to contact me. I invited them to a hotel for dinner, which was very lively. I placed 200000 yuan in cash in front of my parents, and they shed tears and said they were sorry for me. Their cruelty had tormented me for five years, and it also made them regret it for five years. I saw my parents feeling sad and also felt pain in my heart. After all, they were my biological parents, and I couldn't be ruthless enough to ignore them.

The cold family relationship was resolved through the efforts of my husband and I. However, my heart couldn't calm down for a long time. Is it true that the power of money far outweighs that of family in this world? When I was poor in the first year of junior high school and now I have a vast wealth, the treatment difference is really big. I'm really worried that one day, we'll have a bad time and they'll mock us again.

Reply from Weiqing Consultant:

When you chose your husband, it was strongly opposed by your parents, which indeed caused you a lot of suffering. The saying goes: Only by enduring hardships can one become a master. Judging from your achievements today, it is enough to impress them. Parents' opposition is actually for your happiness, and relatives' sarcasm is just an outsider's opinion, so don't take it to heart. You are a kind-hearted woman who can show filial piety to her parents regardless of past grievances, and is worthy of admiration.

It's not money that bought up the family relationship, but your strength that convinced them. They are also paying for their initial indifference. Your parents' tears are enough to show that they regret their attitude towards you. As for those relatives, from the initial sarcasm to the current flattery, I personally feel that you don't need to care, it doesn't matter. We can't control others' mouths, whether life is good or not, only we know ourselves. Their evaluation is just a remark as an observer, no need to care. Living your own life well is the attitude you should have now.