Post Date December, 03 2023
When love has become a thing of the past, face reality bravely, don't let yourself indulge in pain, believe that there are people ahead who cherish you more. Don't waste your life on the sake of that man who is not worth loving, and there is no need to wait for his deteriorating heart
We got married, wealthy and handsome
Jiang (pseudonym) and I got to know each other through a matchmaker's introduction. On our first blind date, neither of us had a crush on each other. Because our appearance didn't match, but for the sake of the good intentions of the matchmaker, we didn't immediately reject each other.
In our future interactions, we began to appreciate each other. He said I was a talented girl, and I felt that he not only looked handsome but also understood my thoughts.
His family's conditions are not good, but I don't mind these. Some people say I have a crush on his appearance, but more people say he has a crush on my family's money. We don't care about others' opinions. After a year of dating, we got married.
In the second year of our marriage, we had the idea of having children, but due to hemolysis, our first child died in the womb. In order to fulfill my wish to become a mother, I actively cooperate with the treatment and spend all day with medication.
I am pregnant, and amidst endless worries and hopes, we have welcomed a baby like an angel. She is healthy, intelligent, fair and lovely, inheriting many advantages from her father. When he came out of the delivery room, Jiang was very excited and said to me with tears in his eyes: "My daughter looks very much like me, especially the hair on the sideburns. Other people's children grow down, but my daughter's hair grows up, which is just like me."
Jiang said he only wanted this daughter and didn't want a second child. After listening to him at that time, my heart couldn't be too sweet. He knew that I had to pay more to be pregnant and have a child than ordinary people, and his thoughtfulness moved me. Once again, I firmly believe that I have never married the wrong person in my life. When my daughter was one year old, I sent her to her grandmother's house because Jiang and I decided to go out to work. Despite the hardships and disappointments of living outside, we have all come through.
After 16 years of marriage, he said to me, 'Let's go.'
In a blink of an eye, we have been married for 16 years. I thought we would live a simple and loving life, but I didn't realize it was just my wishful thinking.
On a hot and stuffy morning, Jiang hurried back from outside to catch his daughter's early start to school. Then he sat on the bed and grabbed my hand and said, "Let's leave
Pressing down the pain in his heart, I asked him softly, "Is there anyone outside?" He nodded tearfully. I asked him who that woman was and why did he divorce me for her? He said, "I've already done you wrong, I can't do her wrong anymore." His words were like a sharp blade, stabbing me fiercely in the heart.
Looking at his restless appearance, I pitied him and felt sorry for him, but more importantly, I despised him. After all these years of marriage, I have always thought for him, dressing him clean and dignified every day outside, and I never let him reach out at home. He loves to go out for a stroll, and even if I don't like it, I always endure it. I don't want to take him too seriously or let him live too oppressively, but in the end, my tolerance was rewarded with his indulgence.
The matter between Jiang and that woman was first discovered by the woman's husband. In the evening, all three of them came, and the woman made it clear that she didn't want to give up on this extramarital affair, and Jiang didn't refute it. His attitude made me hysterical.
Writing a letter is the last hope for saving a marriage
Everyone was present, and I asked him to make a choice. Abandoning that woman, I continued to live with her regardless of past grievances and gave her a complete home; Either he leaves unconditionally and ends it all.
He chose the former, although such a choice was painful and unwilling. His choice couldn't please me, but instead made me feel like a pitiful person. In the midst of his torment, I wrote a letter to him
Husband, I don't want this to be the last way to address you, but my current life is really not what I want. I don't want to see you holding the phone every day, feeling restless. I don't want to give up marriage and family. I want to give my daughter a prosperous and stable life, but I think I may not have the ability. I thought of giving up.
Over the past 16 years of ups and downs, I have had too much reluctance to part with you. Thinking of the years since we first got married, we talked late every night. I don't know when we started. You don't like listening to me anymore, you don't care about my feelings anymore. You dislike my daughter's noise, and we all have resentment in our hearts.
When I heard you say she was so good, my sky fell. A woman who betrayed her lover and family moved you so much? You turn a blind eye to the hard work of your wife who washes, cooks, and takes care of children every day, but only see her kindness. Do you still love me? Do you still love your daughter? I began to doubt.
I want to die, but I can't bear to leave my daughter behind. Since you can let go of me and my daughter, I believe you have ample reasons. I even thought about fulfilling you and making you happy. But now I don't know why, do you know? On the day their family of three arrived, she saw how painful I was and wouldn't let me go. She even hooked up with you, I hate it!
It's not me who made the mistake, so the pain left by the mistake should not be borne by me. I don't want to struggle in this endless pain, I just want an ordinary life. If you don't have me and the child in your heart, then let go of us, leave us
Your hair tied wife
We won't keep the people who hurt us by our side anymore
After reading the letter, Jiang seemed truly moved. He said to me, "I understand what you mean. After you got drunk that day, I felt extremely uncomfortable. You cried bitterly, and I hugged you to cry. Don't be like this in the future, I will listen to you..." After listening to his words, I think he still cares about me and wants this family.
Our lives have regained their former tranquility, but only I understand that the pain in my heart cannot be easily healed with just a few words. I put in all my effort to bring him home. In this marriage defense battle, I temporarily won, but I have no joy at all, only a strong concern about marriage.
Facts have proven that my true feelings can only move him for a month, and his emotions can only last for a month. He once again failed me.
On the evening of July 4th, the woman's husband discovered that they were secretly making phone calls and brought the woman to our house. I was furious, indescribable anger, and I glared at them fiercely. Suddenly, the woman's husband grabbed a kitchen knife. I was afraid he would hurt Jiang, so I rushed over and grabbed him tightly. The woman's husband kicked me several times in anger.
The pain on my body combined with the pain in my heart made me almost unable to stand. My daughter supported me, but luckily there was also her.
My daughter was frightened and cried desperately, before I suddenly woke up. These days, I have only focused on my own feelings, but forgot how to protect my daughter. My husband, from the moment he betrayed this family, couldn't protect his daughter anymore. He kept saying he loved his daughter, but he caused them endless harm. I understand, even though I still love him, I will never leave the person who hurt us by my side again
