Post Date November, 17 2024
Men are too nervous about their sexual ability, which often leads to the psychological phenomenon of false impotence.
If you like masturbation
Zhang just got married, but he didn't like living with his wife. Zhang Le used to have the habit of masturbating, but now he always feels that he can't reach orgasm when living with his wife.
Truth: Masturbation is a common behavior of unmarried men, a natural sexual lifestyle, and has no direct relationship with the occurrence of impotence. But some people worry that masturbation will lead to impotence, and then it may really lead to impotence. In fact, this is mainly caused by mental disorders. Long-term masturbation may lead to psychological abnormalities, increased mental pressure, excessive anxiety, guilt, depression, anxiety, etc. These unhealthy thinking activities will hinder the normal functioning of sexual function.
TIpS:
1. Seek psychological counseling from psychologists to correctly understand masturbation and eliminate mental stress. In fact, even a long-term masturbator. Impotence may not occur as long as it can alleviate mental "pimples".
2. Take some medicine properly under the guidance of the doctor. Drugs can play the role of adjuvant treatment. It can enhance male self-confidence and eliminate psychological barriers.
Lie 2: If you can't get a woman to orgasm
Recently, every time Wang and his wife had a room, he found that he had reached an orgasm, but his wife's face had not entered the state. He felt a little depressed. Can't he satisfy his wife and let her climax?
Fact: In fact, as long as the male penis can erect normally, the sexual intercourse is smooth, the ejaculation is completed, and the emotional climax is reached, even if the female does not reach the orgasm, it is not impotence. This may be due to the lack of time for sexual foreplay. The sexual reaction process of men and women is different. Men can reach orgasm in less than 5 minutes, while women need about 15 minutes to reach orgasm. In addition, if women suffer from pelvic inflammatory disease and other gynecological diseases, it is difficult to reach orgasm.
TIpS:
1. Properly extend the time of foreplay, increase the touch, kiss, hug, etc. before sex, so as to make both parties emotional, sexual coordination, and make women reach orgasm.
2. Women with gynecological diseases such as pelvic inflammatory disease are the best to follow the doctor's advice, actively cooperate with treatment, cure the disease, and naturally reach orgasm.
Lie 3: If the sexual object changes, it does not perform well
Mr. Yang is over forty years old and divorced two years ago. After remarriage this year, he found that his performance in sexual life was not as good as before, and he often had more than enough to spare.
Fact: Sex is an instinctive desire. If a normal adult man does not have sex within a year or two, it may also lead to frigidity. When remarried men have sex, they may suffer from poor erectile function due to changes in sexual partners and lack of cooperation with their current wives. This is normal.
TIpS:
1. The spouse must have a break-in period of 2-3 months after having sex. It's normal to behave badly for a while. Don't worry too much.
2. Take some traditional Chinese patent medicines and simple preparations properly, such as Yishou Bushen capsule, Liumei Dihuang pill, chrysanthemum Dihuang pill, etc. Take Liuming Dihuang Pill for kidney-yin deficiency, Guifu Dihuang Pill for kidney-yang deficiency, or take testosterone undecanoate and tadalafil under the guidance of a doctor* Wait, because these western drugs are addictive: it's better not to take them without authorization.
Lie 4: If you often ejaculate
Liu Xun is 32 years old this year, and has been ejaculating three or five times a month since the age of 15 or 16. Now, he is not only not interested in sex, but also always tired.
Fact: In fact, there is no inevitable connection between ejaculation and impotence. According to traditional Chinese medicine, spermatorrhea is mainly caused by kidney deficiency, heart and kidney deficiency or damp and heat betting. Western medicine believes that phimosis, redundant prepuce, urethritis and prostate disease may cause spermatorrhea. It is completely normal for healthy unmarried men to ejaculate two or three times a month. But if it exceeds this frequency, it may be caused by inflammation of the genitourinary system or overwork.
TIpS:
Lie 5: If the erection is not obvious in the morning
Before Mr. Deng got married, his penis would naturally erect in the morning and become very hard. However, after marriage, this reaction seems to be gradually weakened. Now Deng Qi dare not tell his wife that he is afraid of being laughed at by his wife.
Fact: In fact, the morning rise is very irregular. It will change with people's physique, thoughts and emotions. Therefore, the morning erection cannot be used as the criterion for judging impotence. In addition, many diseases such as hypertension, diabetes, hepatitis, coronary heart disease, brain trauma, spinal cord injury and so on will affect the morning erection. Even excessive fatigue and cold may lead to an inconspicuous morning erection.
TIpS:
Lie 6: If you have premature ejaculation
The sexual life of Li Zhi and his wife has been relatively harmonious, but in recent days I don't know what has happened. Every time I ejaculate in less than three or five minutes, which makes Li Zhi very uncomfortable.
Fact: In fact, strictly speaking, premature ejaculation is not a disease, but a physiological and psychological disorder. At present, there is no exact concept of premature ejaculation, which generally refers to short sexual life. Sexual life lasting for 0 to 3 minutes belongs to severe premature ejaculation, and 3-5 minutes belongs to general premature ejaculation; It lasts about 10 minutes, not premature ejaculation. Traditional Chinese medicine believes that the penis, through the seminal vesicle, is the portal of the kidney and belongs to the liver meridian of the foot Jueyin. The physiological function of male ejaculation is completed under the liver excretion and the kidney seal, which are mutually restricted and coordinated. If the liver is not excreted enough, the kidney is not sealed properly, the kidney yang is not enough to absorb semen, and the semen is not firm, it will naturally lead to premature ejaculation. In addition, prostatitis or too frequent sex life can also lead to premature ejaculation.
TIpS:
1. In the process of sexual behavior, when a man reaches orgasm and has a strong desire to ejaculate, he can stop twitching to inhibit the occurrence of ejaculation, and continue to ejaculate after the excitement period. Or wear two layers of condoms to reduce the sensitivity of the penis. Or do the operation of blocking the dorsal nerve of the penis, cut off some distal nerve endings, and restore the sensitivity of the penis to the normal level.
2. Eating more whip vegetables, such as bullwhip, cow kidney, deer whip, pig whip, or vegetables such as yam, black fungus, spinach, leek, garlic, celery, or zinc-containing foods, such as apples, bananas, can also improve premature ejaculation. When stewing chicken, add wolfberry, angelica, astragalus, codonopsis pilosula to tonify the kidney, which can reduce premature ejaculation.
