Post Date November, 16 2024
Psychological research shows that true lies are easily suspected by celebrities, and honest people always trust others. Just like suspecting her husband's wife after infidelity, it is actually because she has a feeling of lying, has moral pressure, has deceived the other party, and there may be secrets hidden behind their normal behavior. The right people often let others go. Obviously, this kind of lying can have a significant impact on one's emotions and the relationship between husband and wife by driving one's own and others' behavior.
The Real Experience of Lie Couples
The man called home and said, "My boss wants me to travel with Canada, which will take about a week. This is a great opportunity for me to be promoted. Prepare clothes and fishing tools for me for a week. I will be leaving the office soon, and I will drop in some things during the transfer of ownership. Ah, I almost forgot. That blue pajama is also here.
Next week, the wife warmly welcomes her returning husband. Look at what salmon, Malaysian salmon, cute goldfish I'm fishing for... My husband said, 'Why don't you bring my blue pajamas?'?
My wife slowly said, 'I haven't forgotten!'! Put it in the fishing gear box.
The wife complained in her heart: Why does the husband lie? Didn't he go to Canada with his boss? So what did he do?
From then on, the man found that his wife's eyes were always strange, reducing the warmth and intimacy of the past, as if they were always separated by something. Did she conceal my secret?
Evaluation:
Marriage experts have found that lies can be very destructive to marriage, and celebrities who lie are prone to suspecting others' lies.
Intimate attachment relationships must be based on honesty and trust. This is like a bank, trusting overdrafts only reduces personal trust, and saying anything is like lying. Even white lies can damage the relationship between husband and wife.
Generally speaking, lying has two fundamental purposes, one is to gain benefits from it, and the other is to evade punishment. Many men lie to their wives just to reduce conflicts, avoid arguments, and maintain harmony.
However, can lies really calm things down, avoid arguments, and lubricate marriage? The answer is no. Because continuous lying, even if all in good faith, can also damage marital relationships and even disrupt marriage. White lies are only subjective and have a small degree of malice, but their damage to trust is essentially the same as malicious lies.
To be honest may not understand or criticize, but lying may lose more. Because exposing lies is a decrease in trust, a alienation of intimacy, and a mockery of the other person's intelligence. Lies are sometimes like dominoes, saying too much can easily lead to a vicious cycle of being unable to extricate oneself. Saying the first, saying the second, and maintaining the first lie, the liar becomes more guilty and the likelihood of exposure increases.
What lies did the woman tell before going to bed?
Previously, most women didn't say I love you like men did. Because they like this sentence to come out of men's mouths. If true, most of it is true. Because they are not easy to express such private emotions, what they say is true. However, as there are more and more sad men in this society, the emotional instability between men and women can be compared.
I love you, women like to listen, men like to listen. Surprisingly, many men go up and down the mountains and seas for her, not to listen to their beloved woman say this sentence. Therefore, many women will use this sentence as a tool to threaten their boyfriend to obey her orders, with a big diamond ring and a phrase like "I love you", one willing to fight and the other willing to suffer. But there is a worse situation than using this sentence to satisfy material vanity, which is when the relationship changes and the man suspects, the woman uses this sentence to deceive her boyfriend like a child.
Times are changing. It's not just men who ride two boats in love, but women too. A friend's girlfriend initially complained to her boyfriend that the company supervisor was being careless with her, and her friend was so angry that she almost rushed to her girlfriend's company. Fortunately, she was stopped. My friend asked her to retire, but she said she couldn't find a job. Just endure hiding from her supervisor.
As time passed, this complaint was replaced by me blaming him or his real ability. My friend thought the situation was strange and directly asked her and the supervisor what they were doing. She said, 'We are just friends.'. I love you But in the end, the woman changed her mind. No one likes to be deceived in this situation, making people feel like monkeys being played with.
Recruit men! How do you know your wife is lying
The former FBI agent can address this issue. Let's see how they distinguish!
If she breaks her lips
When answering your question, fold your lips into a cylinder, like a kiss, and don't be too happy at this time. Actually, she is very nervous about your problem. That's exactly the uncomfortable expression when asked. Don't shift the topic, perhaps the truth is only one step away from you.
2. If she wrinkles her nose
think. Put the spoiled food in front of you. You can't help but be afraid. When she answers your question, she will also react the same way.
3. If she shrugs her shoulders
The FBI calls it the turtle effect. When obedient, if he retracts his head back to his shoulders, like a turtle's shell, it indicates that he has something else to hide.
4. If she rubs her eyes
Your question is not enough to make the girl give you the truth, she may feel like avoiding your gaze. This is an instinct, even blind people are no exception.
5. If she clears her throat before speaking
When swallowing while speaking, she doesn't know what to say, or her voice suddenly changes. Before answering your question, she must clear her throat as if there is something in her throat.
