Post Date November, 17 2024
Many men express themselves as soon as they speak to women, which is seen by women as a scumbag's approach. Confession is not a clarion call for charge, but a triumph of victory. Trade confessions, being rejected, are normal. What if that confession is rejected? If you want to know, take a look at the editor's sharing.
1. Don't get entangled temporarily
Women are men who dislike being entangled, especially after being rejected. After being rejected, the best response is to use the word 'good'.
A boy once asked me this question before: She refused me, why is she still unhappy? I'm even more miserable, right? Actually, if you change your mind, you'll know that. The person who sells things constantly and actively sells to you. If you refuse a repayment, will you be very annoyed? Do you dislike it yourself? Emotions are the same. If you really want to pursue her, the first thing to do is not to disturb or deduct points. As long as you don't reduce points, you can think of what to do in the future.
As for being calm, there are two things you can do.
First, let her see the change in your appearance. Because the changes in appearance are the most impressive. Doing so can activate her sense of freshness.
Next, turn over your Chat log to find out whether her attitude towards feelings and life is the same as yours. If two people have different ideas, it is difficult to be happy together. Of course, be careful when chatting again, don't check your household registration!
2. You live better without her
In fact, girls rejecting you is the end of the world, confessing failure is an opportunity, and cannot be considered an opportunity for progress and growth. During the empty window of expressing her rejection, while improving herself, she also saw that life is good even if she is not with her. This actually has benefits in the minds of girls.
This way of showcasing oneself is ten thousand times better than when you pester her. To achieve such an effect, the following three steps must be followed.
Firstly, make her realize that without her, you have yourself instead.
For example, in the past, asking for evening reports earlier, opening your eyes and giving her good morning the first thing, or seeing something interesting and wanting to share it with her for the first time, these things can all be stopped.
But don't forget. Our goal is not to make her deliberately ignore her, but to make her feel your change.
While stopping the previous communication, you can also convey to her that I am not completely disappearing in your world.
For example, occasionally praising her circle of friends and finding her when there is something wrong. Make her feel that you didn't intentionally neglect her, but you no longer gave her the tenderness you used to have, and your world is no longer centered around her.
Secondly, learn appropriate selfishness.
Previously, she was the center of your world, and she said you dare not go to the west. This time it's different. You need to let her know that you were with her before, and the information will come back in seconds because you like her.
Now that she has rejected you, she no longer enjoys these privileges.
For example, she can chat with you and you, even if she doesn't come back.
When she asks for help from you, you can tell her that she cannot leave her body recently, and find a reasonable excuse to refuse.
Instead of desperately thinking for someone who doesn't love you, it's better to enjoy high-quality solitude.
Finally, the most important thing is to expand one's strengths and form a strong contrast with the opposite sex she comes into contact with.
There is no perfect person, some people can accompany her to gossip, while others can chat with her heart. What you need to do is show her that everything you do can be done well after being rejected by her.
Being more handsome than you is not careful, being more careful than you is not handsome, being more diligent than you is not interesting, and being more interesting than you is not improving.
At this moment, she said, 'Did you miss a decent man?'? If she has a psychological gap, she is easily shaken and has doubts about her original decision. At this point, it is easy to recycle her using a reasonable method.
3. A new posture appears in front of her
Finally, rather than getting hurt secretly after being rejected, it's better to transform oneself mentally. Only by living a beautiful life can one attract others and become someone that girls like.
Every day, I only know the house and never go out to socialize. When I meet a slightly closer girl, I want to express myself to her urgently. Such people only make girls feel childish.
Once again, confession is not a clarion call for charge, it is a triumph of victory! Don't use confession as a means of attack. Don't use confession to move the other person, attract them by showing better self. Let her see that you don't have her, but instead show a better side, of course she doubts her own eyes.
