Post Date December, 03 2023
When you finish a busy day of work and finally return home. It was supposed to be the lightest moment of the day, having dinner with my dear and asking, "How was your day?" As a result, an awkward thing happened. After she said, "It's okay," a "long-lasting" silence began. So how will the next script develop?
Someone once complained that after being together for a period of time, I understood everything about the other person, talked about everything that could be talked about, and there was nothing left. Is it really like this? Is it inevitable that long-term relationships will become a besieged city? The editor told you, this is not necessarily true. Have you tried all the following questions?
Childlike past events
You and your partner may have some interesting childhood memories, which always evoke beautiful memories and a knowing smile when you think about them.
For example, the shrimp that I touched in the pond all those years, once ran away from home, and even the most memorable time was being beaten by my parents.
Sharing some interesting childhood stories with them not only enhances your understanding of each other, but may also allow you to discover the innocent side of your partner.
Imagine, in front of friends, you half jokingly say that she has done many bad things since she was a child. Is it possible to crush a group of lovers and brutally kill countless single dogs?
Current Life
In addition to discussing issues such as' how are you doing today ', you also have many topics to discuss about your current life. They can be gossip, current affairs news, a new movie, and so on.
And, appropriately discuss some topics that can be discussed together rather than simply narrated. For example, I saw a news today that girls do not want to marry boys who have been together for three years because boys do not do household chores. What do you think?
Discussive questions like this not only increase the interactivity of the conversation, but also indirectly reflect the subject's three perspectives, such as directly asking them "Will you always love me?" and getting answers that don't know where to be true.
However, there are still risks involved in asking such questions. For example, if both of you are highly opinionated individuals and have differing opinions on the same issue, both of you may want to persuade each other, which may result in mutual reluctance and anger. The editor advises everyone to have a meal and relax a bit, not take it too seriously.
But if you, as a person who loves small animals, say 'true fur is what I have always wanted'... I just want to know how you looked at each other in the first place?
Brain cave opening class
Having a brainstorming conversation with your partner is also a good choice. You can imagine having superpowers. "If you wake up and find yourself with a superpower, do you want to be invisible or like the Hulk; Or imagine the future, "If the Earth was about to perish and you could survive alone, what would you do.
These brainy conversations must also be novel and interesting to discuss. It's just a friendly reminder. It's best to have a conversation like this when only the two of you are around. Otherwise, friends around you will definitely look at you both with the same eyes as monsters. But as long as you enjoy it yourself, who cares?
Flirting suggestion type
In addition to the above topics and interesting conversations, you can also hint at some shy things in the conversation. It can start with 'Did you miss me today?' and extend to 'I bought a new set of underwear today'.
Does this kind of flirting at the table, one by one, inadvertently add to the fun of life? Occasionally having a teasing dinner table chat with my dear is like a small surprise in daily life. It doesn't take much energy to make love last and last.
