Post Date December, 02 2023
Love is just having someone who understands you
In December 1968, Lennon and Yoko walked on the steps. The fallen leaves are all over the steps, and they stand hand in hand. The picture matches, just like the original posture of love. Lennon tirelessly told the world, "When I first saw her performing arts on stage, I fell in love with her crazily. Yoko said, "At least I have someone who understands me
As the upper class of Japan, Yoko was born into a family closely related to politics, industry, and finance. My father was a banker, my mother was a feminist, but Yoko chose art. Lennon also fell madly in love with Yoko when she was performing the performance art "slice". The world mourned the dissolution of the Beatles and blamed Yoko for everything. But Lennon said he didn't want to give up his true love for anyone, because in the end, you would still be alone at night.
During a Beatles concert, Yoko sat in the front row. At that time, they separated due to arguments and had no contact for a long time. Rumors were circulating that they had separated. They looked at each other from afar across the stage, and Lennon suddenly jumped off the stage to kiss Yoko. Later, they got married.
Lennon once said that the love between him and Yoko was as smooth as breathing. Only by falling in love with oneself can one breathe smoothly.
They understand each other, like the same person.
Sanmao once asked Jose, "If there is an afterlife, are you willing to marry me again
No, I don't. If there is an afterlife, I want to live a different life
Three hairs hit him.
You think the same thing, don't you
Sanmao looked at Hexi and said, "I really think so
Josie's death was a heavy blow to Sanmao's soul, just as she said in her book, "In the snow of Serbia, we have changed our hearts. Your heart is mine, and mine is yours. Today, we are buried.
When we talk about San Mao, we talk about her talent, her wanderings, her unfathomable love affair with Jose, and how she ended her dazzling life. We compare her to a legendary woman, conscious of being different from ordinary people. But San Mao couldn't give up on Jose, it's just that no one in this world knows that she understands her like Jose. She had to embrace herself in the silent night without anyone, and the days when her soul could not be understood and accompanied tormented her, causing her to ultimately abandon her attachment to the secular world.
The good things in the world are not firm. We strive for a single minded person, but it is not easy to obtain them. However, the clouds are easily scattered and the glass is fragile, just as Sanmao himself said, Many nights, I lie in bed and live in a house by the sea. I always hear the wind at night, with a whimpering moan, cutting through my window. Sitting there, I suddenly realize that I no longer have a home and am alone. Every night, I sit there waiting for dawn. At that time, I always thought that such a day would not last
In the early spring of 1997, Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu's daughter Ah Yuan passed away. At that time, Qian Zhongshu was seriously ill and bedridden. He looked at Yang Jiang, but his eyes were dry. Yang Jiang understood him and quickly told him, "Ah Yuan went to sleep." Qian Zhongshu nodded and then calmed down.
At the end of 1998, Qian Zhongshu passed away. When he left, he didn't close his eyes properly. Yang Jiang whispered in his ear, "Don't worry, there's me
Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu are beautiful stories in the literary world. They have walked hand in hand throughout their lives, leading the most peaceful and simple lives, but their emotions are stronger than those of Jin Jian. Qian Zhongshu once said, "Before I met her, I never thought about getting married; I married her for decades, and I never regretted marrying her; nor did I think about marrying another woman.
Because Yang Jiang understands him.
The world only sees Qian Zhongshu's extensive poetry and essays, but only Yang Jiang has seen his "clumsy hands and clumsy feet" in life. He was born into a prestigious family and was exceptionally intelligent from a young age. He never cared about the daily necessities of life. Yang Jiang is not inferior to him in her family background, but she studies in a bumpy life and takes good care of Qian Zhongshu.
In Yang Jiang's eyes, Qian Zhongshu's clumsiness in life is just a part of his temperament. Just as he was severely biased towards mathematics at Tsinghua University back then, it added a childlike charm.
So with Aji here, there is peace of mind.
We are happy to write hymns to the love stories of famous people, such as Lennon and Yoko, Hexi and Sanmao, Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang... They are interpreted and consumed, either intense or plain. We are tireless in this, and the chaotic singing of you and me on stage seems to be the only way to comfort our barren emotions by repeatedly praising these timeless relationships.
But all the beautiful love in this world, whether it's a worldly affair or a love in the market. Ultimately, it's just having someone who understands you.
