Post Date December, 03 2023
Modern marriage and family require love, attachment, and respect as the foundation. The composition of a family is the bond that two people have inherited in their previous lives. When two people are together, it is not easy and the crowd is vast. Why does it happen that these two people form a family? After all, it's still fate between two people. So in the maintenance of our marriage, the couple should respect and trust each other. However, marriage needs to be maintained by two people. If you do these four things in marriage, your marriage will soon disappear. Let's take a look at those four bottom lines together!
Men being beaten by their wives is education, women being beaten by their husbands is harm
The more physically strong a man is, the less he can engage in violence, even if their relationship is completely broken, they cannot engage in violence towards each other. If a man starts hitting his wife, he will definitely bring down the bottom of his emotions. If he says that women cannot bear it, he may file for divorce. Even if a woman reluctantly forgives the other person in the end, there will always be a scar in the subsequent relationship. Especially when men start doing things, they may not develop the habit of doing things in their future relationships. Even if there are emotions, they will still be defeated. This is not like women hitting men, it can make men wake up, and sometimes it is also an education.
An extramarital affair is destined to be an underground activity, and a marriage is played out in public
If one spouse has an extramarital affair, but the other party is unaware or uncertain, the relationship between the couple may still be able to maintain. Especially for those who do not want a divorce but only seek some extramarital romance, extramarital affairs may not necessarily lead to the breakdown of the marital relationship. But if extramarital affairs are made public, it is undoubtedly a direct challenge to marriage, and the other party cannot tolerate it.
Cursing the other person can be jokingly called love, but cursing their close relatives only increases resentment
It is normal for couples to fight and make noise, but only the couple themselves know what degree is. But no matter what conflicts arise, one should not scold the other party's relatives, especially their biological parents. This is even worse than directly scolding the other party, making it difficult for the other party to accept. If one party curses the other party's parents, it must make the other party feel angry and may immediately slap the other party in the face.
Occasional infidelity may be forgiven, and unethical feelings can lead to despair
As a couple, we often live together with other family members or have frequent interactions. However, if there is an immoral relationship, it can directly lead to the breakdown of the relationship. Even if we maintain the relationship for certain reasons, the relationship will become distorted. So, both spouses should consciously hold onto their respective responsibilities in the family, love each other, and be polite and courteous. In some special circumstances between couples, infidelity may occur, but if this kind of infidelity is just an interlude in the couple's life, it's okay to let it go. But if it's an immoral relationship, it may make the other party unforgivable.
Conclusion: Through the narration in the previous article, I believe everyone has a certain understanding of this article. In fact, if one party does not tolerate and tolerate it, the marital relationship will exist in name only or even disintegrate. So we cannot do anything that can harm marriage, let alone touch the bottom line of marriage. For the sake of family and children, since it is fate to become a couple, then hold hands and love each other for a lifetime!
