Post Date December, 02 2023
When you clearly feel that your boyfriend is becoming increasingly indifferent to you, unwilling to share his thoughts with you, or even unwilling to talk to you again, it indicates that he has gradually lost interest in you. Your existence is like that cup of boiled water, colorless and tasteless, and you are like a transparent person who has seen you through long ago, and the curiosity and freshness he has for you no longer exist. Why does your boyfriend treat you coldly? Have you ever thought about these reasons:
You're not sexy enough
The standard for most men to choose a mate is to find a woman who is full of femininity. How to define whether a woman is feminine or not? In essence, femininity is the unique sexiness of women, and it is also the attraction and charm of women. Some women have graceful posture and fashionable and appropriate clothes, which make men's eyes shine when they appear on the stage; Some women can make a man fall with a glance and a smile; Some women have humorous conversations and generous manners, while men enjoy physical and mental pleasure when they stay with them. A woman with a strong sense of femininity can hold her boyfriend's heart in every move.
When the term "sexy" first became popular, it was rejected and resisted by many women. Even when a boyfriend praised his girlfriend for being sexy, she felt angry and embarrassed, and felt that it was her boyfriend's malicious and abusive smile. "Sexy" has developed from a derogatory sense in the eyes of women to today, and has been accepted and pursued by most men and women. "If you are always unkempt, speak without passing through your head, blurt out, and act carelessly, your boyfriend will feel embarrassed when taking you to a friend's party or in some public places, and more often, he would rather participate in activities alone.". Since then, the common topics between you have decreased, there has been a lack of communication, and the relationship has become increasingly unfamiliar.
You don't play coquettish or show weakness
Some women are very confused as to why many men prefer girls who have a sweet voice and look pretentious. However, if you often get along with your boyfriend in a serious and playful manner, he will feel very tired, especially when you want to do many things yourself without giving him the opportunity to act, and he will feel even sadder.
"My boyfriend has a strong sense of need, and he hopes you can feel full of happiness with him. He wants to reflect his excellent and masculine side, and he also longs for you to accept his love for you.". Playing coquettish is also a lovely aspect of women, and playing coquettish is also a way to maintain feelings. Can showing weakness save your boyfriend? Proper displays of weakness can also stimulate a boyfriend's desire to protect, which can help to save his boyfriend. A girlfriend who is too rigid can easily make her boyfriend lose his sense of presence.
You're too headstrong
Willfulness is not the exclusive right of a girlfriend, and a boyfriend can also be willful. His indifference to you can also be regarded as willful, and soon, you will be unable to tolerate his willfulness. It is often said that when a man deeply loves his woman, he will tolerate her capriciousness, without complaint or regret. But how do you feel when you view your own wayward behavior from the perspective of your boyfriend? "For a small matter, you refuse to be soft, either throwing things or swearing loudly, launching a cold war, or leaving the door behind and running to your best friend to complain loudly.". You may feel that he doesn't love you enough and often talks about breaking up. In this way, the more difficult it is for your boyfriend to understand your thoughts and behaviors, the more physically and mentally exhausted he is, and he is unwilling to pay attention to everything you have. If he wants to leave you, it is only a matter of moments.
