Post Date December, 03 2023
For married men, marriage is the castle that needs to be maintained, and the wife is naturally the princess in the castle; Therefore, in order not to make the princess angry, husbands must have a good eye in their daily lives and learn how to grasp their relationships with other opposite sex.
1、 Don't get too close to friends of the opposite sex
I'm afraid I don't need to explain this further. If a relationship with friends of the opposite sex is too close, even if two people understand each other, it can lead to misunderstandings due to the influence of the surrounding environment. If your significant other knows about it, it may not be possible to explain it in a sentence or two, even if your friendship is truly pure as you say.
2、 Don't eat alone with friends of the opposite sex, go out and play
This can easily lead to misunderstandings. Not only do couples misunderstand, but even friends misunderstand, thinking that your love is not focused and half hearted. Try not to go out alone with female friends outside of your own girlfriend, such as playing or eating. Even if you want to go, it's best to bring your significant other with you and let her know that there's really nothing between you, just friends.
3、 Don't say overly ambiguous words to friends of the opposite sex
Besides your own boyfriend and girlfriend, don't say anything ambiguous about other opposite sex friends. Although you may think it's okay, others may not think that way. Perhaps others are secretly in love with you, and your words give her hope and greater disappointment? Perhaps due to some intentional or unintentional flirtatiousness, your friends didn't have to do it in the end.
4、 Don't socialize too frequently with friends of the opposite sex
If you have your own boyfriend or girlfriend, don't communicate too much with opposite sex friends. You can communicate, but there should be a limit. Try not to chat with other opposite sex friends in front of them. Maybe they will pretend not to care and not say anything about you, but if you think from a different perspective, you will definitely feel uncomfortable and spend more time with them.
5、 Friends of the opposite sex should also learn to refuse
A person who won't refuse may seem kind and well intentioned, but on the other hand, you may also hurt others. It is precisely because you won't refuse that they have the illusion that you have feelings for them, that you like them, or that you just treat them as good friends. So for both ourselves and her, you should learn to refuse, otherwise it will only hurt others and yourself in the end.
For married men, the attraction of the opposite sex is ubiquitous, whether it's colleagues or friends. At this point, it's necessary for husbands to have a correct grasp of the relationship between the two parties. Otherwise, if it catches fire, it will only hurt both spouses.
