Post Date November, 17 2024
In China, many people begin to significantly reduce the frequency of sexual intercourse when they enter middle age, and some even stop having sex, let alone the elderly. Can you stop having sex at that age? Let's take a look at some key points for elderly people to have sex.
How should elderly people engage in sexual activity
Adjusting speed
Young people act quickly and fiercely, they are easily excited and explode like gunpowder. A man in his twenties can reach orgasm 2-3 minutes after the start of sexual intercourse, while his wife may need more than 20 minutes to reach high excitement. So there is often a situation where the wife is getting better, but the husband has already given up. The survey shows that newlyweds in their twenties are the most difficult to reach among all age groups.
As men age, their rhythm begins to slow down, and the speed of blood flow and muscle contraction naturally slows down. Therefore, it takes longer for men in their forties and fifties to reach orgasm. This slow and emotional approach is more powerful for the wife. With the synchronization of 'sexual arousal', the wife will naturally obtain satisfaction.
Changing roles
Between young couples, it is always the desire of the husband to actively approach his wife and express it softly in his ear. After many years, the wife may become proactive due to changes in hormone secretion. Both males and females secrete male and female hormones, but their secretion ratios vary at different age stages. After the proportion of these two hormones secreted by men changes, they may be more willing to be in a passive position. After the reduction of estrogen in the female body, the secretion of male hormones correspondingly increases, which may become more active.
A little wins a lot
50% of young couples have two to three visits per week, with 11% having more than four visits. After the age of 35, this proportion drops to 39%. 45% of couples may experience emotional and physical satisfaction "not many times a month". After the number of times has decreased, couples should be more aware of the importance of the quality of sexual life every time. If two people can simultaneously obtain physical and mental satisfaction, even if it is only once, it is much better than the usual dozens of times. The saying 'farewell is better than newlywed' also demonstrates how important a high-quality sexual life is for a couple's relationship.
By doing instead of looking at
Young men may have an erection even if they only see a dried bra, but after the age of 35, they may not take their wife's body seriously and pay more attention to her kissing and caressing. 51% of young husbands are excited when they see their wife undress, but by their forties, this rate will drop to 40%. If couples can replace their eyes with their own actions and passive acceptance with active expression, they will achieve unexpected results.
Attempting Innovation
As couples age, they get to know each other more, and due to their familiarity and trust, they are no longer shy about discussing how to achieve a more satisfactory sexual life. It's worth learning to use new methods and perspectives to solve old problems, such as sharing a bath with a spouse.
To have a harmonious sexual life after the age of 35, both spouses need to adjust and adapt. As long as both spouses truly understand these normal and unavoidable changes, they can face them correctly and achieve lasting happiness, even in old age. You can even experience a sexual style that you dare not experience when you are young, which is to add sex products to your sexual experience. Durex's sex products are designed with absolute humanization, and experiencing them once will make you unable to stop.
What are the benefits of a human life for the elderly
① Exercise of self-confidence: Men who are able to control sexual activity are more likely to enhance their confidence and ability to navigate other complex environments. Sexual interaction can help men maintain sharp thinking and mind.
② Exercise for cardiac function: Sexual activity is equivalent to the physical expenditure of climbing and building buildings, so moderate sexual activity can strengthen and improve cardiac function, which is beneficial for the heart health of elderly men.
③ Promoting sleep: After sexual activity, both spouses experience a sense of fatigue due to significant physical expenditure, especially in men. After sexual activity, men always fall asleep first, which is particularly difficult for men who have difficulty falling asleep.
④ Exercise of whole body skeletal muscles: Sexual activity is a great form of exercise, it is a systemic exercise, equivalent to the physical exertion of running, which can make the limbs of elderly men less stiff and more flexible.
⑤ Exercise for the skin: The arrival of orgasm during sexual activity can make the skin and mucous membranes of the whole body dry and hot, increase skin temperature and accelerate blood circulation, which is the best way to clean and clean harmful substances in the skin. It can also drive away some aging oxidative factors in the skin. In addition, hugging, touching, and kissing each other during sexual activity can also stimulate and activate the metabolic function of the skin, Make the skin appear 'youthful'.
