Many women who have been married for many years do not know if they have reached orgasm, and some husbands always hope that the woman can reach orgasm with them. However, how to identify a woman who has already reached orgasm is sometimes unclear to themselves. Women achieving orgasm during sexual activity have distinct characteristics:
Before orgasm, some people may experience sexual redness on some of their skin. This is due to the redistribution of blood, causing a sudden flow of blood to the surface of the body, resulting in congestion of superficial subcutaneous blood vessels. Sexual redness mainly occurs in the face, front chest, and breasts, and secondly, there may be congestion in the entire body's skin.
2. Muscle tension occurs. Due to increased muscle excitability, there is muscle tension in some parts of the body, ranging from involuntary to regular contractions. During orgasm, muscle spasms like contractions can occur, mainly manifested as spasms in the hands and feet, facial distortion, or body twisting.
3. Increased breathing and heart rate. Due to the excitation of the central nervous system, blood pressure increases, muscle contraction accelerates, aerobic metabolism increases, and the demand for oxygen increases, resulting in an increase in respiration and heart rate. During orgasm, the number of breaths can reach 40 times per minute, sometimes accompanied by rhythmic moans; The heart rate has increased to 120 beats per minute, with some women even reaching as high as 150-160 beats per minute.
4. Feel a change. When women reach orgasm, some may experience blurred consciousness, decreased vision and hearing, and even temporary fainting; Some women have decreased or disappeared taste and smell. It gradually returns to normal when entering a regression period.
5. During orgasm, female vaginal muscles, especially the external opening muscles, undergo significant, intense and pleasant contractions, which have a significant gripping effect on the penis. This contraction usually occurs 3-15 times, every 0.8 seconds, lasting 2-4 seconds or longer, and brings a high degree of self pleasure. The contraction effect of vaginal muscles is particularly evident in women with good physical fitness and who have never given birth. Finally, the woman's pelvic floor will shake unconsciously (especially the vaginal levator muscle and the anal sphincter), and in contrast, these muscles will consciously and consciously appear rhythmic contraction. Following this, the uterus undergoes rhythmic contractions, extending from the fundus of the uterus to the cervix. During the climax stage, muscle spasms occur more frequently and experience a longer duration. Some people describe it as a slight electric shock or a warm current flowing from the lower body to the whole body.
6. The breast experiences nipple erection reaction, involuntary contraction of muscle fibers in the breast tissue, congestion of blood vessels, and stiffening of the nipple. Once orgasm is reached, the breast skin becomes red and hot, and the swelling of the areola becomes more pronounced.
Female orgasm generally has diversity. A survey and analysis of 936 married women of childbearing age showed that orgasm can be divided into 8 common single types: vaginal contraction type, warm flow type, shaking type, electric current passing type, playful and revelry type, floating and soaring type, moaning and restless type, and drunk and hazy type. Some manifestations include the simultaneous occurrence of dual types, three types, and four types. Among them, two types and one type are the most common, accounting for about 66%, and the vast majority (about 88%) have the performance of hugging each other during orgasm. Of course, there are also 10% to 12% of women who have never experienced orgasm, and about 5% of women only experience pleasure without orgasm; About 7% of women have neither pleasure nor orgasm.
It should be pointed out that there are significant individual differences in female orgasmic responses, with some being strong and others being weak; And it's not something that can be achieved every time you have sex, sometimes; Some people have already experienced various reactions to orgasm, while others have been unaware of the taste of orgasm for a lifetime. Therefore, every couple should not place too much emphasis on women and must achieve orgasm every time they have sex, as long as both parties feel satisfied and happy during sex. As for those who have been married for many years and have never experienced orgasm before, they are considered female sexual dysfunction. It is necessary to seek treatment from a specialist in sexual medicine at the hospital.
(Intern Editor: Huang Jiazhen)