It's not a crime for adolescent boys to break down. Education requires a firewall on all sides

Many boys, after reaching puberty, suddenly realize that their originally pure self has gradually "deteriorated". Not only do I often peek at girls, but I always think about things between men and women. In short, they tend to be distracted during class and regret their "bad" thoughts after class. They think that their own thoughts should not exist, and having them is a manifestation of "hooliganism".

Xiaoyu, who is already in the third grade of junior high school this year, is a boy with this idea in mind. In the third year of junior high school, Xiaoyu's academic performance dropped from the previous top ten in the entire grade to beyond the top 100, and this downward trend continues. This sudden decline in "changes" not only puzzled the teacher, but even Xiaoyu's parents couldn't figure it out. The school and parents found Xiaoyu together, and after asking multiple questions, Xiaoyu finally revealed the truth.

Originally, during the summer vacation of Xiaoyu's second year of junior high school, she saw a yellow video of a man and a woman at a classmate's house. The scale of the video was almost unobstructed, and Xiaoyu became excited during her adolescence. Xiaoyu came out of his classmate's house, and he regretted his behavior as he was shy.

However, since then, Xiaoyu has always remembered the footage from the video. And when Xiaoyu saw the girls in his class and the beautiful female teacher, he thought of their bodies wrapped in clothes... When Xiaoyu was excited, he was afraid of himself. He secretly said to himself, 'How am I now? Am I not bad? I want to be a good child...'

That's it, Xiao Yu, who is in such a worried and contradictory mood every day, has lower and lower academic performance, and has entered a vicious cycle.

Adolescent teenagers should not feel uneasy about being bad

In fact, young people like Xiaoyu are not examples in middle schools. Almost all the young people at this age have similar Sexual fantasy. However, this longing and imagination for sex is not just a signal of real change. On the contrary, this change is the first step towards maturity for adolescent boys.

However, boys who have not received formal sex education may feel guilty and regretful for their actions or thoughts, and most importantly, may also experience a sense of fear. These ideas can affect their academic performance at a light level, but at a heavy level, they can also affect their physical and mental health development. Therefore, adolescent boys must know that deterioration is not true deterioration, but rather normal sexual consciousness. Don't worry about your sudden deterioration, don't deliberately stop it, make learning your priority, and this idea will naturally ease.