It is necessary to choose elective education courses on how to distance and block early love during adolescence

Faced with the situation of children having early love during adolescence, expert advice is: only sparse, not blocked. Some schools offer "early love classes" to teach children how to fall in love, and some parents also share their own experiences and stories in dealing with their children's early love problems.

Blockage: Strong negotiations backfire

Mr. Yan deeply regrets his excessive handling of his daughter's early love issue, and now his daughter doesn't want to talk to her either. After dinner at home, he stays in his small room.

I felt like she was in early love three months ago because I found out that there was always a boy who would take her home and often make phone calls quietly in the room. Once, when I didn't knock on the door, she quickly hung up and complained that I was eavesdropping and violating her privacy

To Ms. Yan's shock, a friend told her that she had seen her daughter and a boy hugging and hugging on the street, and their behavior was very intimate.

Ms. Yan realized the seriousness of the problem and began to earnestly advise her daughter not to fall into this relationship, listing various serious hazards, such as affecting her studies and future life paths. However, her daughter did not listen to her advice and laughed at her outdated ideas. Mr. Yan, in his grief and anger, hit his daughter for the first time, causing a deadlock in the mother daughter relationship.

Ms. Yan went on to negotiate with her daughter's boyfriend, hoping that he could consider their future and cut off contact as soon as possible. Unfortunately, this negotiation not only failed to persuade the boys, but also caused their aversion, making strict women feel embarrassed. I am really powerless in this matter, always afraid of my daughter getting hurt. Ms. Yan regrets not interfering with her daughter's early love earlier, and regrets not being able to enter the child's heart.

Distance: Equal communication helps children overcome misunderstandings

Mr. Zhuo's son is in the second grade of junior high school. The child said a few days ago that he doesn't want to study at this school and wants to transfer. Mr. Zhuo is very bored. When asked the reason, the child refused to speak. I went to school to learn about it, and the teacher told me that the child has a tendency towards early love and has been slightly hit, feeling that their self-esteem has been hurt and their emotions are relatively low.

Originally, the child had a crush on the girls in the class six months ago. Initially, their relationship was smooth, but later on, the girls had a tendency not to fall in love, which dealt a blow to their son. Some good classmates in the class mocked him and developed a dislike for learning.