93% of married couples engage in sexual activity in their own bedrooms. Therefore, both parties must work together to create a beautiful bedroom environment that becomes a romantic and special place, rather than stacking various appliances as a place for entertainment and work.
People generally believe that the larger the bed, the more comfortable it is to sleep. A slightly squeezed bed is more conducive to intimacy between couples. Due to the fact that physical contact is the most direct concern, when two people touch their hands and feet from time to time, it not only makes people feel warm and safe, but sometimes even makes the days without sexual desire boil with excitement.
The sheets and covers on the bed should be replaced frequently. The best things to make a bedroom fresh are bedding, bedding, and other items. Only by regularly updating, maintaining cleanliness, and matching colors, patterns, and materials with both parties' aesthetic tastes can people's instinct to pursue happiness be awakened.
The bedroom should become a restricted area for children, which is beneficial for couples to appropriately place sexual stimuli such as nude sculptures, oil paintings, couple photos, sex books, etc. In sexual psychology, the expectations of couples towards the bedroom environment are generally a psychological requirement, which generally consists of three specific contents: sufficient sense of security, moderate sexual stimulation, and space for association.
A bottle of perfume can also be placed on the cabinet beside the bed, but do not open the bottle cap, let the fragrance drift out of a wisp, which will produce an ambiguous mood.
The sexual desire of a wife is more susceptible to environmental influences, so the color tone of the bedroom should be dominated by the wife's emotions, and generally follow the principle of "opposite and complementary", that is, the appeal reflected by the color tone should be opposite to the personality characteristics displayed by the wife in public. Color can encourage a wife to fully engage in sexual activity and stimulate rich emotions that are not easily expressed in daily life.
From the perspective of orientation, it is better to use a middle color for rooms facing south or north, cool colors for rooms facing west, and warm colors for rooms facing north. The decorative color of furniture generally needs to be warm to enhance the warm atmosphere.
Try to choose table lamps with adjustable brightness for bedside lighting. Before sexual activity, it can be tuned to dim and soft light to create a hazy mood. According to the survey, couples can enhance their Sexual arousal by observing each other's Sexual arousal state and individual sexual physiological reaction in soft light.
It is best for both spouses to maintain a sense of mystery and not change clothes in each other's bedrooms. For most ordinary couples, the beauty of nudity is not strong, why self exposure? Furthermore, although it is not necessary to dress very sexy in the bedroom every day, it is best not to dress too rigidly in bed. Conservative wives may as well occasionally wear a silk nightgown, while their husband's underwear is changed every day.
If couples have to endure night shifts, late returns, and working late at home for a period of time, they may try to sleep separately for a few days. This not only avoids the unnecessary drowsiness of the person who goes to bed early, but also increases the sense of mystery. When we are together again, we will be as excited and excited as our previous dates. Or when couples have a good emotional foundation but find that their sexual interest gradually weakens, they can choose to sleep in separate beds to cultivate their sexual interest.