Post Date November, 16 2024
In the process of heterosexual communication, women tend to be in an awkward position. They release friendliness and goodwill to men, or some friendly actions, but they are misunderstood by men. They think it is a Sexual suggestiveness or sexual temptation, which may be because women have not found the right way to communicate with men. So, why is female friendliness misunderstood by men as sexual temptation?
Firstly, there are certain misunderstandings between each other
In real life, both men and women often encounter such misunderstandings. A woman thinks she hasn't done anything, she's just talking to a man, but a man thinks she's tempting him. As a result, the man takes the wrong action, which also arouses the woman's disgust. The woman mercilessly refuses, and even if the woman scolds him shamelessly, the man still feels puzzled. The woman is obviously tempting herself, but she has made a clear refusal. In fact, men's misunderstandings about women have their own purposes and roots, but women do not know, and men themselves do not know.
Secondly, they both miscalculated each other
Men tend to overestimate the degree to which women are sexually attracted, but women tend to underestimate men's commitment to themselves. If a woman mistakenly believes that a man has made a promise to herself, but in fact does not, that is to say, wrongly affirms it, then a woman will give her true effort but not receive the corresponding return from the man, and she will also lose her dependence and loyalty with other men in the coming years.
If a woman mistakenly believes that a man has not fulfilled her promise, but in reality has, that is to say, wrongly denies it, and then pays the price by a woman, then seeks a man who can promise herself. For women, the cost of false affirmation is much higher than the cost of false negation, so women will never overestimate the attractiveness of men to them.
Thirdly, there are differences in purpose between each other
When a woman interacts with a man, she may just want to have a process of understanding each other, or she may only consider the other person as a spare tire and not want to have any substantial development. But when a woman gets too close to a man, he inevitably mistakenly thinks that a woman has a good impression of him, and then some relationships naturally occur next.
So, men tend to think about developing sexual relationships with women, and this unequal purpose between men and women can lead to misunderstandings.
The above is the reason why men mistakenly believe that women's friendliness is sexual temptation. Due to differences in thinking and thoughts between men and women, there may be some misunderstandings. Women should learn to intelligently grasp the distance between men and women. If they do not want to have a deep development relationship with each other, it is best to control and grasp the degree of communication, otherwise it may cause unnecessary misunderstandings.
