Having been married for a long time and having sex together for several years, do you still need to learn sexual skills? The answer is yes. Making love is a discipline that requires a lifetime of genuine experience. If you have a few years of sexual experience and look back at sex books, you will have amazing rewards. This is the principle of learning from the past.
1. Don't regret it because your married life doesn't leave romantic memories until you're in your 60s. Try to do the most important things in life while you are still young. If you feel that being close to your lover is the most important thing in life, don't waste your time together. If you always don't have enough time, it's best to make a schedule and don't let the small things in life miss the best time.
2. If you don't want to have sex, it's best to be honest. Not only should you tell the other person your mood, but the most important thing is to answer yourself, why don't you enjoy having sex? It sounds simple, but it's not easy to remember when done. Usually, physiological or psychological disorders can affect the intimacy between couples. Sometimes when you're tired, having sex is essential for you. In short, be honest with your lover, express your thoughts and emotions, and don't simply say that I'm not feeling well, just to send them away. Speak up and solve it together.
3. Focus your energy on the other person, not on children or work. When having sex, forget about extremely strange thoughts, worries, and fears. If you can't do this, tell your partner. You can take a walk or listen to music first to relieve your psychological burden.
There are actually many ways to enhance your relationship, and there are many ways to make your sexual life more passionate. Continuously speculate and think in life, constantly learn new skills, and make the relationship between husband and wife always fresh.