Post Date November, 17 2024
What are men's true thoughts about sex? The author conducted a survey on some men, and their straightforward answers may surprise the ladies.
Question 1: How important do you think sex is in male female relationships?
Mr. Zhao (39 years old, dealer): It's very important, perhaps the most important factor in maintaining a sexual relationship.
Mr. Ma (24 years old, computer engineer): Sex is an important part of sexual relationships, but not the most important. Because there is also love and responsibility. In creating an intimate relationship between two people, one should not overly rely on it.
Mr. Tang (31 years old, lawyer): I don't think sex can be labeled. Sex has its peaks and valleys, and sometimes it is extremely important and can be said to be fatal. But sometimes a dinner or a quiet intimate conversation with a loved one is more important than having sex. If you can coordinate your needs with your partner, knowing that although sex is important, it should occur naturally and not just for the sake of sex.
Mr. Qiao (18 years old, temporary employee of the company): Sexual activity is important in both genders, but sexual activity does not have much effect on improving sexual relationships. Harmonious sexual relationships can improve the quality of sexual activity.
Mr. Zhang (30 years old, teacher): A healthy sexual life is important, but more importantly, getting along and communicating.
Mr. Li (34 years old, investor): It's not very certain. This is a bit like arranging your daily work schedule. You think it's the most important thing today, so you put it at the top of the schedule. Tomorrow, you may have more important things to do, so move it to the later position on the schedule. That's it.
Mr. Sun (26 years old, tennis coach): Sex is a thing, but not the most important thing.
Question 2: What is the initial and best behavior of a woman that attracts your attention and makes you take her seriously? How do you make girlfriends?
Mr. Li: Let me know that she has a mind, which can show me that she has made efforts and is willing to express herself. I am looking for my girlfriend in the office.
Mr. Zhao: Do foolish things without realizing them, such as leaving things behind and worrying about friends blindly.
Mr. Tang: If I see a woman I like with her gaze touching me and smiling at me, out of politeness, I will talk to her or take a walk together. If I could be confident that she is on the same level as me and has a good impression of me, rather than just flirting with me or making me entertain her, I would take her seriously. I don't deliberately look for women anywhere, but I always pay attention to the existence of good women everywhere.
Mr. Sun: Women who wear short skirts and are sexy can easily attract my attention. This is a man's instinct, but if a woman wakes up early and prepares breakfast for me and brings it to me, I will take her seriously. I make friends with women in bars, dance halls, and some nightlife places.
Question 3: After having sexual relations with a woman, how often does she make phone calls? Are you discussing sex on the phone? What prompted you not to call her again?
Mr. Qiao: I definitely want to call her, but perhaps it will take a day. On this day, I think of her and hope she is like me. So when I call her, I know what to say and how to say it appropriately. At the beginning, the topic won't be about sex, but it will definitely come up later.
Mr. Zhang: If her bed skills are good, I will call her the next day, but the conversation will not involve sex.
Mr. Tang: Even if I knew our relationship wouldn't continue, out of politeness, I would call her to greet her. Oh my goodness, I hope I'm not the kind of heartless person who, after having such a close relationship with a woman, immediately sets her aside.
Mr. Zhao: Women like challenging men, so I will wait a day or two to call her back and explain how much I miss her. I won't discuss the last time I had sex with her on the phone until we meet again.
Question 4: Do you talk about your sexual life with others?
Mr. Zhao: No, unless it's a one night stand, because such a fact is too rare.
Mr. Tang: I won't discuss sex with anyone else except my partner. This is between us.
Mr. Qiao: Yes, I would talk about it with a close girlfriend like your 'sister', and occasionally tell one or two school friends.
Mr. Li: Yes, I will talk to others about it. You know, when you pick up the phone, some production partners will ask if you have had any sexual encounters recently, and sometimes, your mouth can't control it.
Mr. Zhang: Sometimes, my brothers and I talk about my affair.
Mr. Sun: I won't tell anyone, but when two men and women with such a close relationship stand together, anyone will notice something in their eyes. Most people know the taste of romance.
Mr. Ma: I am discussing my sexual life with my best boyfriend or girlfriend.
Question 5: What should I do if I feel anxious about having sex? What can a woman do to make you relax? If you encounter this situation the first time you have sex with a woman, will you still call her?
Mr. Zhao: The first time I have sex with a woman, I won't have any problems. But in the stage of developing a relationship with a woman, if a woman says there is something wrong with me falling in love, and I have to be confident that I can satisfy her, it may cause anxiety. When two people have sex, if it's not ideal and they don't say anything, the situation will improve. If a woman says to me, 'What's wrong with you?' So no matter how hard I try, it won't help.
Mr. Zhang: I have never encountered such a problem.
Mr. Ma: Making love is mutual pleasure, and it's impossible for two people to be satisfied every time. If she doesn't have any anxiety about having sex, then I will be very relaxed.
Mr. Li: I feel nervous during the day or under time constraints, and besides that, there's nothing always happening.
Mr. Qiao: I often have problems, but women don't help me.
Question 6: When in bed, what do women do to make you most discouraged or excited?
Mr. Qiao: Hearing her call someone else's name dealt me the biggest blow. And the woman's shyness moved me.
Mr. Li: I prioritize work, but some women always hope that I can sign a contract with her. She doesn't let me wake up and wants me to have more sex with her to prove that I value her more than work. I am very annoyed with such women. What excites me the most is that I once dated a woman who lives in the same building as me. When she needed to have sex, she walked into my room without saying a word, took off her clothes, and leaned on the couch
Waiting for me to approach her. After finishing, she put on her clothes and drifted away like when she arrived. When I have sex with her, I feel very close.
Mr. Tang: Women with rude behavior deter me. Once, after spending a night with a lover, we went to a restaurant for breakfast together in the morning. My girlfriend was dissatisfied with the waiter, pushed and pushed him, and threw a glass of water on the dining table. I sat there, ashamed of my girlfriend's impolite behavior. Afterwards, I gave the waiter a lot of tips to compensate for my guilt. In the future. I have never been to that restaurant again, and I have never gone out with that girl again.
Mr. Sun: I hate women who show off. Nothing annoys me more than a woman who always amplifies her voice and insists on her own opinions. Especially interrupting my conversation with others at any moment is unbearable to me. As for what makes me emotional? Those sexy lingerie with many decorations can greatly enhance my 'sexual interest'.
Mr. Ma: A woman's deception or appearing cold and tired during sex can make me feel discouraged. What excites me the most is a woman who is aggressive, energetic, and adventurous in bed.
Mr. Zhao: I don't really like women screaming. It doesn't refer to moans during sex, but to the kind of reckless screams. I once met a girl who could almost be heard by the entire building during sex, and then my feelings disappeared. I enjoy oral sex, and I also like women who have sex with me to use vulgar language when intimate, without any hesitation.
Question 7: What is the primary obstacle in sexual relationships?
Mr. Zhao: Women like to see men as their works and as an important part of completing their plans. Some women always try to transform me, and as soon as I see her motives, I will run away.
Mr. Ma: If she deceives me and is unfaithful to me, then the trust between two people will be completely destroyed.
Mr. Li: I hate women putting on exaggerated postures in bed, the kind of pretended passion and movements, praising how skilled you are after completing things, being a rare believer, and so on. Please, please!
Mr. Sun: I broke up with many women because of their arbitrary behavior. I once dated a woman with a salary as high as mine. When going out to eat, she always insists on paying separately or driving her car out instead of mine. No way! I am a big man and I must pay the bill. So, in the end, we parted ways unhappily.
Mr. Tang: At my age, women often consider me a good prey: I am just the same age, not bad looking, and have a stable job and income. I have known a woman who always likes to take me to a jewelry store to find a suitable engagement ring.
Question 8: Who takes the initiative during sex?
Mr. Zhang: There are times when people take the initiative. I like women who have a lot of charm in bed.
Mr. Ma: This is a mutual matter. If I think she cares about me and wants to have sex with me, then I have no problem.
Mr. Sun: It is certain that men take the initiative. Women can send signals, but they don't actively engage in sexual activity.
Mr. Zhao: I don't think men always take the initiative. I like women who actively show their love.
Mr. Li: I think women should wait for men to take the initiative.
Mr. Qiao: It's not that women cannot actively show love, but only after men start taking action can everything run smoothly.
Question 9: When you don't love a woman that much, are you likely to have sex with her?
Mr. Zhang: Yes.
Mr. Tang: I can't say that. Because I have never had sex with a woman I don't love before, at least I feel like one day I might fall in love for her, otherwise I wouldn't have sex with her.
Mr. Qiao: This is impossible for me. Sometimes, I think I no longer love the woman I have sex with, but in reality, I can't stop loving her.
Mr. Sun: Of course, I don't love more than half of the women I have had sex with.
Mr. Li: It's not impossible. This is very normal.
Question 10: Is the most unforgettable type of sex without any constraints or restrictions?
Mr. Zhao: Yes, absolutely.
Mr. Zhang: Absolutely.
Mr. Tang: I want to say no, but the fact is' yes', yes.
Mr. Li: This is a very 'ghostly' question.
Mr. Sun: This is the most natural question for me.
Mr. Ma: Not all of it.
