Post Date December, 03 2023
It is normal for men and women to spark love, and it is young people who cannot help but understand. Some people always treat premarital sex in a disgusting way, feeling that it is not self love, but it can not be completely said that way.
Some people may not have enough self love, but this kind of thing is divided between people, not things.
There are differences in deciding whether to give your most precious first time in different environments, treating different people, and for different reasons.
Some people have said that trying out love before marriage is not only about understanding the other person's lifestyle habits, but also about helping us better understand their physical condition.
Try marriage before marriage, effectively avoiding regret after marriage. Premarital cohabitation is an experimental life of a loving couple before they officially enter marriage. This quasi marital relationship is fundamentally different from an improper sexual relationship, and there is no issue of exchange of interests. The basic purpose of cohabitation before marriage is to try marriage, by observing whether various aspects of life, physiology, psychology, etc. can coordinate with each other, and then deciding to fulfill legal procedures.
The main reason for believing that women suffer losses is based on secular beliefs, believing that women who have cohabited have a bad reputation and are prone to having a negative impact on finding new relationships. But this kind of adverse effect has both men and women, and compared to the adverse effects of unhappy divorce after marriage, the impact of discovering that the other person is not suitable for timely breakup during cohabitation is much smaller.
Sex is the inevitable result of the development of love between men and women to a certain extent. Although the secular concept does not agree with premarital sex, the binding force of traditional moral concepts has been weakened. No premarital cohabitation does not mean no deviant behavior.
Recently, a college in Xi'an asked female students to fill out a commitment card, vow to refuse premarital sex, and ensure that they will not cheat after marriage. Although the starting point is good, the shelling still shows the problem. Since men and women have reached a certain level of love, it is inevitable that they will fall in love and roll the sheets. Living together before marriage has become a matter of time and form. Steadily engaging in physical relationships is not as safe as stable cohabitation. It is not funny to calculate who will take advantage and who will suffer losses?
Premarital cohabitation is not about children playing around, both parties are adults who are about to get married and start a business, and have fully developed the ability to take responsibility for their behavior.
Both men and women have no eye for eye on marriage issues, and no one can accurately determine whether the person they love is suitable for being their lifelong partner. Choosing to cohabit before marriage is to deepen mutual understanding, which is safer than getting married first and then getting divorced, and turning the marriage into a sandwich.
In this sense, many young men and women cohabiting before marriage is not a hasty behavior, and both parties naturally have considerations and can grasp the right balance. If both cohabiting parties calculate who will take advantage of the situation, it is believed that there will be no market for premarital cohabitation.
