Post Date November, 17 2024
The harm of premarital sex. The characteristics of premarital sex are that both parties are voluntary, without legal guarantee, and there are no obligations and responsibilities between husband and wife; It is easy to cause some disputes and serious consequences. A large number of data show that the initiators of premarital sex are mostly men, but the direct victims are women. So, what are the dangers of premarital sex?
1. Pre-marital sexual relations tend to make men and women break up before marriage. Some girls reluctantly sacrifice their bodies for fear of losing their beloved boy. The result is often counterproductive. If she insists on the last pass, it may be easier to catch him.
2. Many men do not want to marry a girl who has had sex with others. Some men have been trying to reduce the number of virgins in the total population. But when it comes to getting married, they don't want a "junk".
3. Girls who have premarital sex are unhappy in their marriage. The more times you have sex before marriage, the less happy you will be after marriage.
4. Girls who have premarital sex have a higher divorce rate. This is the natural result of the third item. Unhappy marriage is one of the important reasons for divorce.
5. Girls who have sex before marriage tend to be unfaithful to their husbands after marriage. It is easy to have extramarital sexual relations. They are twice as likely as their wives who have no sexual experience before marriage.
6. Having sex before marriage may make a girl marry an inappropriate person. "Sex can make you blind". Some girls may believe that she has found true love. In fact, the power that binds her and her boyfriend is sex rather than love.
7. Girls who have premarital sex are often dissatisfied with their sexual life after marriage. For women without sexual experience, married sex life seems more satisfactory. One reason is that a wife who has premarital sex often misses her previous sexual experience. Recalling and beautifying the past, she always felt that today's husband was not as good as her old lover.
The beginning of a relationship is always full of happiness and sweetness, but it is easy to love each other, and it is not easy to get along with each other. With the passage of time, various problems will follow. Facing the reality and temptation of today's society, it is no longer easy to love each other, and it is increasingly difficult to get along with each other. Here I want to talk about my experience and share with my friends:
1. In the early stage of contact between men and women, don't speak too well and try to keep a low profile. Otherwise, once you behave poorly, it is easy to make the other party feel cheated. Some people value this feeling very much, so it's better to keep a low profile. If you do it well, it will give the other party a surprise.
2. In the process of contact, try to understand the likes and dislikes of the other party as much as possible, do more things that the other party likes, and do less things that the other party dislikes. Maybe you think it doesn't matter, but the other party attaches great importance to it, which may make the other party angry inadvertently, but you don't know it at all.
3. Don't judge each other's friends in the process of contact. Some people value friends very much. Maybe you just want to talk about your own views, but the other person thinks that you despise his (her) friends, so he is angry with you. Why bother?
4. No one is perfect. Look more at each other's strengths and less at each other's weaknesses. Learn to understand and tolerate. Say more words of encouragement, less sarcasm and sarcasm. You may have to work very hard to make up for hurting each other.
5. Learn to admit mistakes. It is not humiliating to admit mistakes in front of the people you love. If handled well, it will also enhance the feelings of two people. Showing individuality, stubbornness and extreme will only make things worse.
6. When two people have conflicts, they can calm down and talk about their own views calmly. Don't use extreme words during the conversation, nor hide their own views in order to avoid conflicts. Avoiding to talk can only temporarily alleviate the conflict, but it may deepen the misunderstanding and even make the other party feel the pressure of conversation taboos. Everyone hopes that the conversation atmosphere will be as relaxed as possible, Since conversation is the main way of communication, isn't it good to improve understanding?
7. Everyone yearns for a happy life, but there will inevitably be bumps and bumps in the process of getting along. Both sides should be rational, focus on the matter, find reasons from themselves more, do not escalate conflicts, let alone say some words that hurt feelings, or even deny the other side completely, and think about the other side's kindness to you more, and naturally the clouds will clear up.
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8. Deal with the relationship between friends and lovers. Love and friendship are very important. Don't ignore the existence of friends because of lovers, and don't ignore the feelings of lovers because of friends.
9. Due to differences in living environment, experience and personality, the two sides may have different views on people and things, seek common ground while reserving minor differences, and do not hurt feelings for arguing about unimportant or irrelevant matters, which is not worth it.
