Many men have masturbated. Many people say masturbation is very harmful to the body. So, is masturbation really so harmful? Of course, some people say that moderate masturbation is good for the body, so what is it?
In fact, many men are very resistant to masturbation in their hearts, but they are always unable to control it. Some men even start to doubt whether they have any mental disease. They think masturbation is a very shady thing. In fact, masturbation is the satisfaction of men for their normal physiological needs. Proper masturbation is beneficial to their health.
Masturbation is an act of obtaining sexual satisfaction by stimulating one's own genitals with hands or other instruments. This behavior is quite common among the general population. According to authoritative statistics, 92% of men and 58% of women have masturbation habits among the general population.
There is a great prejudice against masturbation in history. It is believed that masturbation is harmful, damages the kidney, causes sexual dysfunction, affects fertility (infertility), and even causes dementia, premature aging, and premature death. These erroneous ideas are mainly influenced by religion in foreign countries, and by the theory of traditional Chinese medicine and social ethics in China. According to the theory of traditional Chinese medicine, one drop of semen and ten drops of blood will damage the kidney and cause kidney deficiency. Preserving semen can restore the essence and replenish the brain. Traditional Chinese medicine describes kidney deficiency as physical weakness, easy fatigue, frequent dizziness, tinnitus and palpitation, weak waist and legs, mental depression, depression, memory loss, loss of sleep and dreams, and sleep loss and sperm loss.
Modern people have been very tolerant of masturbation. Many newspapers and magazines have widely publicized that moderate masturbation is harmless, which means that degree is harmful. The problem is that there is no objective measure of moderation. Most people who worry about masturbation are thinking they are overdoing it. This will also cause excessive anxiety of masturbators and cause psychological problems.
Why is normal sexual behavior harmless and insist that masturbation is harmful? Why does no one worry about frequent sexual intercourse and masturbation? In fact, the harm of masturbation does not lie in masturbation itself, but in the incorrect cognition of masturbation. Many so-called manifestations of kidney deficiency, even psychogenic impotence and premature ejaculation, are psychological reactions caused by the fear of harmful masturbation.
Is male masturbation really good for health?
In fact, sexual desire and appetite are both lack of sexual motivation. Once satisfied, the motivation will disappear immediately, or even enter the refractory period. The body itself has a strict regulatory mechanism, so there is no need to worry about excessive. Masturbation is a sublimation of human animal's sexual instinct. Animals with mature physiological development and strong sexual desire can mate with any opposite sex at any time and place, while humans cannot. Restricted by ethics and morality, humans cannot always close the last door, which will be very dangerous. Without venting, they will become ill.
Masturbation is a common phenomenon both before and after marriage. It is a way to vent before marriage and an auxiliary means of sexual life (such as sexual foreplay) after marriage can improve the quality of sexual life.
Masturbation has the following advantages: flexible control, self-dominated, can choose the intensity and time of stimulation by oneself, without the cooperation of others, and can explore the stimulation method suitable for oneself; Safe and free from the risk of sexually transmitted diseases (especially in the era of AIDS epidemic and the flood of sexual information sources); Do not affect or infringe upon others; More importantly, the most effective behavioral therapy for impotence, premature ejaculation and lack of orgasm, which has been recognized by the medical community in recent years, is actually skilled masturbation.
So the correct point of view is to conform to nature and advocate learning. There is no need to worry about it. As long as it is not public masturbation, it is normal. Of course, there is another situation, that is, you feel unnecessary and have no pleasure, but you can't control masturbation. This is a compulsive behavior and you need to seek help from a psychologist.