From ancient times to the present, nine out of ten men are lecherous, and the so-called "appetite for sex" has given the "gentleman" of 5000 years a legitimate reason for being reckless. No man doesn't like women, but what kind of woman is the most perfect woman in a man's eyes? Not only do women have different opinions on this issue, but even men have different opinions and arguments. you bet! "Everyone has different scales and standards in their minds, and naturally there are many difficulties in measuring them. However, no matter how different they are from person to person, there are some common things among them.". Let's study whether it's true that men "love" bad women.
In "Sweet Honey", there is a line that Liming said to Zhang Manyu. Upon hearing it, I felt deeply distressed. In that movie, Zhang Manyu is definitely not a good woman in the traditional sense. She "tricked" Liming into doing a lot of things for herself, even "earning" his hard-earned money, but Liming has always been foolish, putting her in the saddle and responding to her demands.
Then one day, when they talked about who had taken advantage of whom, Liming said, "We'd better ask for more advantage from me." Zhang Manyu was surprised. She used to think that Liming's lack of heart and mind was not enough to justify being used by herself in vain. Then Liming continued, "I only have one friend in Hong Kong, and if I don't let you bargain, you won't talk to me anymore. In that case, I won't even have a friend here."
In other words, Dawn knows everything in his heart. He knows that she has used his feelings for her, but he would rather be used by her than lose her. In Hong Kong, he is a man who has nothing, can't even start from scratch, and struggles daily on the poverty line. If a woman refuses to take advantage of even a little more advantage, where else would a woman like to be with him?
According to our normal reason, we would say that Liming should not fall in love with a woman like Zhang Manyu because she is utilitarian, materialistic, and adept at using men. At least she is not as cute as Liming's fiancee, "Xiaoting," who is young, pure, beautiful, and gentle. Liming has endured countless hardships to bring her from the mainland to Hong Kong, and the two of them have been childhood sweethearts, "Directly, we can steadily move forward on the grand road of" having lovers and eventually getting married ", but why can't Dawn let Zhang Manyu go?"? With Xiaoting's down-to-earth life, why bother tossing yourself around the world?
When I was young, I always didn't understand why a compatriot who most women think is vulgar, vulgar, boring or even a bit of dishonest would be loved by a man, and that man is often excellent! At that time, I would be foolish enough to lament for that man in my heart and feel sorry for him. A good man was cheated by a woman.
Now think about it, even if it's cheating, he knows it. He likes her, so he's willing to be cheated by her, that's all. Even, many men will think, "Ah, this woman is willing to cheat me like this, indicating that she is willing to spend her time for me, so sweet honey.".