Is it normal for a newlywed night to be unhappy? What are the reasons why first-time sexual activity is not very successful

Failure to have sexual intercourse on wedding night is also common. Analysis shows that the main cause of first sexual failure is pre coital penile fatigue (excessive tension), which accounts for 10% of pre coital ejaculation or ejaculation immediately after contact with the female vagina (excessive excitement, impatience), which accounts for 8% of female pain, which accounts for 35%, and the site of sexual intercourse, which accounts for 15%. The cause is unknown, which accounts for 20%.

On the other hand, the failure of the first sexual intercourse is related to the lack of caressing experience. People with no experience account for two-thirds of the failures, and after the first sexual intercourse failure, they can understand one-third of the reasons. Many of the losers can smoothly combine after 2-5 trials, so even if they fail, there is no need to worry or worry. Take a break and try again, or wait for one or two days for both parties to stabilize their emotions and relieve the fatigue during the newlywed marriage before trying again. If men fail, women will feel uneasy about being criticized for not being useful or useful, and face greater psychological setbacks and difficulties. At this point, if women are reasonable and do not say anything, encouraging and comforting men, they will regain their courage and seek harmonious and happy sexual life.

It is of course the best policy to rest before marriage and adjust your diet appropriately. However, seeking truth from facts, marriage is complicated and fatigue is inevitable. However, despite the hustle and bustle, no matter how tired you are, you can spend your first beautiful wedding night with passion and interest.

Happiness without expectations on the first night

Yang, 28 years old this year, wore a wedding dress on July 22nd. The topic shifted from the grand and lively scene of the just completed important celebration of life to the sweet wedding night. Her fair face quickly turned red, and Yang's wedding night did not have much to savor. I originally planned to travel to Thailand to get married, but due to the large number of friends I had to socialize with, I changed my plan and rushed to decorate my new house, distribute invitations, and finally, according to the wishes of the two elderly people, I arranged a banquet for 720 tables in the restaurant. On the 22nd, it was a weekend. I woke up early and didn't have any free time. I was dressed up and tidy up properly. Mr. Yang was taken over and stood in front of the restaurant to greet the guests, followed by ceremonies and endless toasts. A few hours later, Mr. Yang had back pain and straight eyes. He changed his clothes and entered his new house. When all the guests went happily, Mr. Yang and fell headlong on the bed, and the desire for dreams also disappeared.

The Sichuan girls are quiet and attach great importance to their wedding. Quietly knowing that people's sexual attitudes are now open, virgins are not virgins, it seems that not many people pursue them. However, receiving women from them still requires a special ceremony. Don't do it for others, just do it yourself. Therefore, she quietly rejected several boyfriends who had just met and wanted to go to bed. For so many years, quietly protecting her chastity, she had to solemnly hand herself over to her husband on her wedding night. Starting from the moment when she decided on a happy day, she had fantasized about that moment multiple times, and her emotions shook. In one fantasy, her expectations became a pond on a rainy night. She devoted herself wholeheartedly to her wedding reserve days with a joyful longing, and Ma kept busy: from the decoration of her new house to the selection of furniture, the purchase of dowry... she had experienced everything firsthand. The most exciting moment has finally arrived, but the result is not so. The two foolishly waved. The husband vented his anger anyway, but in despair, he had to accept the soldiers. Later on, when I think about it, I quietly regret it, seize the opportunity when I have enthusiasm before getting married, and enjoy my first time well. Life is not just the right of first night.

Unable to fully enjoy the joy of the wedding night, Yang Hejing's marriage life had inexplicable regrets. In fact, Yang and Jing did not realize that they had both committed the taboo of wedding night: during the short or long preparation period for marriage, they recklessly overspent, and it is not surprising that when they reach the "normal day", their hearts are spare but their strength is insufficient.

Preserving strength, paying attention to rest before marriage, and adjusting diet appropriately are certainly the best strategies. However, seeking truth from facts, marriage is complicated and fatigue is inevitable. However, despite the hustle and bustle, no matter how tired you are, you can spend your first beautiful wedding night with passion and interest.