Q: My wife and I have a good sex life. My wife sometimes asks me to do it more than once or twice a night. I'm worried that frequent ejaculation will affect my kidneys, but my wife doesn't believe it. Shouldn't I be moderate?
Whether you can ejaculate many times overnight is related to your physique, age, mood, environment and the charm of your partner. Some people ejaculate many times a night and are healthy. Some people feel tired after ejaculation once, which depends on the specific situation. From the perspective of western medicine, multiple ejaculation does not harm the kidney, but it should pay attention to the impact on the mental and nervous system. It seems that one should sleep, but he still reluctantly makes love. Mental deficiency may lead to erectile difficulties and anxiety. It is better to adjust occasionally. If you do this often, it may further have adverse effects on the endocrine, cardiovascular, prostate and digestive tract, and people are also prone to aging.
Abstinence is mainly aimed at people who suffer from physical damage due to indulgence. It is not necessary to emphasize couples with normal sexual life frequency and good health. For a healthy husband and wife's sex life, both parties should try to explore "common interests", so that sex can not only harm the body, but also meet the needs of both parties and promote the relationship between husband and wife. Experts said that when the wife has multiple sexual needs, the husband can make some "tactical adjustments". For example, it was supposed to have sex on Monday and Thursday. In order to do more times at a time, we can change the schedule of Thursday to Saturday, so that we can ensure sleep and conserve energy before; Another example is to let her have an orgasm at the first time. If she is satisfied, she will not rush to let her husband "make up lessons"; If the wife is in need again several hours after the climax, the husband should take a rest immediately after sex, do not stress the afterplay, and do nothing else to prepare for the next time. However, on the other hand, the wife should be more tolerant. Seeing her husband's lack of spirit the next day after continuous sex should be restrained, and she should never kill the goose for the egg.
Men ejaculate more, women have not reached orgasm, and some women ask for it many times. The husband should understand that it takes a long time for the wife to reach the climax, and it is better to control her speed according to the rhythm of the other party. Such as sexual fantasy transfer, change of body posture, control of emotional involvement, and adjustment of movement frequency are all effective ways to improve premature ejaculation.