Sexual Health
Is it a fraudulent marriage for the husband not to fulfill his promise before marriage
Before marriage, my husband's family said they wanted to open a supermarket, and my expectations for the supermarket were particularly high. As a result, once I got married, my husband's family wouldn't open it. "There is also my house. Before marriage, I said I had borrowed 20000 yuan from a loan, but after marriage, I said I had actually borrowed 200000 yuan.". I think he's cheating on marriage. He usually treats me very well, that is, when he is in a hurry, he starts. After six months of marriage, he hit me twice. My heart is particularly uncomfortable. I don't want to take the step of divorce, but can I still have such a marriage?
Ms. Gong:
The term "fraudulent marriage" refers to a person who fraudulently obtains property from others in accordance with the country's legal marriage registration procedures or in the form of marriage as a bait. "He did not defraud your family's finances, and he is usually very kind to you, so his behavior does not constitute a fraudulent marriage.". He just concealed the factors that were unfavorable to him and promised something that could not be achieved. "The motivation for his behavior is that you can distinguish between good and bad in your own life. Do you love you too much for fear of losing you and have to exaggerate the truth, or are there similar behaviors in life that conceal the truth?"? In addition, should you also reflect on yourself? Did you marry him to open a supermarket? Or owning a house without a mortgage? Is it because of your high expectations that your husband has to elevate himself to satisfy your vanity?
In addition, he started hitting you, which is indeed his fault. If you are too tricky and make him lose control of his emotions, you need to learn to discipline yourself. If he is prone to violence, you need to warn him, lest he develop the habit of learning to stop domestic violence.