Post Date December, 03 2023
Dating is an important way for people to get married, especially for older men and women. Dating can help people get off the bill. In real life, many people go to blind date after reaching a certain age, and the result is often the result of failure. Do you know these reasons may be blind date failure? Let's take a look with Xiaobian.
Reasons for blind date failure:
1. Expectations for the success rate of blind date are too high.
You can be a lover when you see one. Isn't that a joke? Do you believe it? Anyway, I don't believe it. I think the average of 10 people can feel the same. Don't belittle yourself, but don't be too narcissistic to think that you will be congratulated from all directions as soon as you appear.
2. There are many unreliable people
In fact, there are many unreliable people in the matchmaking team. They don't come to make contact with each other originally. Isn't it a matter of seeking fish from a tree.
3. Probability problem
For example, I am an precocious child. I like beautiful girls in primary school. This is not the key to the problem. The key is that I only like one. I believe everyone has had similar experience. At first, there were 50-60 students of the same age in a class, and nearly half of them were girls, that is, 25-30 students. Of course, it is not excluded that those who have the ability to cross to other classes, so the larger the number of girls is. Here I want to explain the probability problem: luckily, the first date we meet is the person we want; If you are unlucky, you may meet 25-30 people. This is just a problem we meet. It's just the starting point of the long run of love. Then there is understanding, getting along with each other, loving each other and getting married.
4. Meet the right person at the right time and do the right thing
Here we emphasize a probability, not one third, but one sixth. Because you are choosing the other party and the other party is also investigating you, it is not surprising that I don't like what I like, and I don't like what I like. Maybe I didn't sleep well yesterday, and today I stared at a black eye circle and was passed out by the other party; It is also possible to chat well before meeting, and die when you come out. Here, we are not trying to undermine everyone's confidence. This is the fact.
Seven Precautions for Dating
1. Don't go to the bathroom frequently
Go to the bathroom frequently, and go for a long time each time. If you are on a blind date, you will make the other party feel uneasy and feel if you have something on your mind. Don't let the other party think you are strange, be natural, or it will cause people to be upset with you.
2. Don't be too enthusiastic
When you have a good feeling for the person you meet for the first time and hope for further development, you must calm down first. Don't be too enthusiastic to scare away the other party. Let the other party have more than enough to arouse his desire to explore. You should wait at home for the other party to ask you out.
3. Don't just talk about the weather and gossip
If frankness is your greatest charm, you can give full play to your talkative side, but don't just talk about the weather, or gossip like stars. It is better to say something that can make the other party feel good about you, and more about your personality, specialty, hobbies, experience, etc.
4. Don't have silent smile and insincere nod
Generally, the other person is sitting opposite you on a blind date. He can see your every move and every expression clearly, even if your smile is sincere or perfunctory. If you just nod your head and don't speak, it is likely to hurt the self-esteem of the other party.
5. Lower your strengths and value the other's expertise
Don't just show off your strengths, which will make the other party feel depressed. You can ask more questions about his hobbies and expertise, which will also stimulate your new topics and communication desire.
6. Never talk about heavy topics
Don't just dig into the bottom of the matter to promote understanding, let alone be inquisitive about issues such as lovelorn, breakup and unemployment. Even if you are really curious, please wait until you become more familiar.
7. Believe in the first sense and enlarge the sixth sense
When the first feeling tells you that the person in front of you is worth continuing to communicate and get along with, you should timely enlarge your sixth feeling. When both the first feeling and the sixth feeling are working, you should know what to do next.
Xiao Bian's conclusion: The above is what Xiao Bian brings us to meet the right person at the right time. Life is already very hard. If there is no one to accompany us, then it will be more lonely! Finally, Xiaobian felt that in fact, most people want young couples to stay together.
