Is adolescent sexual fantasy good or bad? The hazards of adolescent sexual activity should be understood

How should sex education be conducted? Western sexual attitudes and education methods may be very intense for Chinese people, but in Japan, which belongs to the Eastern cultural circle, the Japanese Ministry of Education and Science (equivalent to the domestic Ministry of Education) requires schools to provide sex education courses for students of appropriate age in compulsory education. Japanese universities do not offer sex education courses that are either superficial or unconventional in China

Treating adolescent sexual fantasies correctly

In adolescence, many people are sensitive to sex: when they see books and television about both genders, they will experience unknown impulses and excitement. Boys' penises will not spontaneously erect, and girls' vaginal secretions will increase. As a result, some people believe that they are bad, their minds become complex, and they regret and blame themselves.

There is a fundamental difference between the sexual fantasies of normal individuals and those of mental patients. Sexual fantasies can be self controlled, and for the time being, illusionists can clearly recognize that their content is fictional, does not exist in real life, and is dominated by subjective will. Psychiatric hallucinations are a pathological and illusory perceptual disorder, and patients cannot recognize and criticize them. Even under the control of hallucinations, various impulses and strange behaviors may occur, such as destroying objects, hurting people, and using hands or feet.

Sexual fantasies are mainly due to addiction to the opposite sex. During our youth and development, we often admire and fantasize about idols we don't know, and we weave our dreams by watching their posters every day. This kind of sexual fantasy can sometimes be helpful to us. Sexual therapists suggest using fantasy stimulation responses. Women who are active and happy in their sexual life often have rich fantasy experiences. The beauty of fantasy is that it is not limited by time and space, and is not afraid of others' prying eyes. Fantasies that allow us to temporarily surpass reality can strengthen our values, focus on our strengths, alleviate stress and tension through fantasy, help us cope with emotional stress, and timely alleviate the biggest obstacle to our satisfaction

From the above analysis, it can be seen that fantasy includes sexual fantasy, and every normal person may have it that has certain benefits for our sex and brings joy to sexual life. It is a part of normal life and not pathological. However, fantasy is moderate, especially for teenage girls in the flowering season, it is just fantasy, especially indulging in sexual fantasy, academic delay, misguided, taking the path of sexual crime, and experiencing sexual psychological disorders.