Investing too much and deceiving oneself is fake, but I just can't let it go. What should I do

1 Keyword: After confession, she neither refuses nor expresses herself

Q: Da Da confessed to her two years ago and we are classmates. She didn't clearly refuse, and she also felt that she had feelings for me. Afterwards, she chatted very well. But I am too low to understand these concepts, such as pushing and pulling, showcasing high value, and rejecting them. Because there is no sense of security, too anxious to push the relationship forward, emotional, and emotional to confess. In the end, my sister didn't dare to speak to me, and she just managed to chat casually. Otherwise, she wouldn't respond. I haven't actively contacted her for over half a year, and I haven't said a word. The problem we are facing now is that we are about to graduate and I want to return to the south to work. I heard that she is taking the postgraduate entrance exam and her family is from the north. However, I invest too much and always convince myself that this is all fake. But I just can't let it go. She has a good figure, and I would tell myself that there are many girls with good figures, but I can't get through it and I can't remember. What should I do?

Answer: Just like Zhang Shaohan's song "Promise too beautiful because it's too young/But dear, it's not love". When we were young, we drank and sang loudly, wanting to go to heaven and earth, but ultimately realized that we were not the center of the world or the male protagonist of the movie. We didn't just cry and have a bottle of milk to eat.

Brother, you also know that there are many people in the world who are better than her. You also know that the reason is that you have invested too much in your sister, and you are willing to think that I have given so much, so you should be with me. Perhaps you think, 'Oh! Graduation is coming soon, and there's not much time left. You must take care of her during this time, otherwise it won't be too late and there won't be any opportunities in the future.' So have you ever thought about if you really like her, would you be willing to take the train to her city once a month after graduation? Are you willing to work in this city for her? The answer is that you are unwilling, you are unwilling to bet your future on her, and you are afraid of pursuing failure after graduation in a daze. Just trying to turn her into your girlfriend at a "low cost".

So what should you do? The answer is to learn crow's great self guidance, broaden one's horizons, work hard to learn and make money, and let her meet a brand new you one year or two later.

2 keywords: She always takes things seriously

Q: # Crows love to answer questions # Girlfriend is the kind of girl who is especially hard to change her mind. Everything is up to the final say, but there is no selectivity problem. It's just that she always feels uncomfortable being eaten by her! For example, when I sent her home, I had to report on WeChat, but when I reported her, she didn't immediately respond. I had asked for the same question before, and I replied immediately, but she never took it seriously. May I ask what I should do if the crow is big?

Answer: Many times, our mentor is also wondering whether it is a man who has learned combo or a woman who has learned combo?

So here I recommend you to see the film of Alpasino, and feel what the framework of a man is, or do you think that like Shang Geyundun and Brad Pitt in Fury will be so bossed by girls? On the other hand, if you always obey your girlfriend like this, she has formed an emotional circuit where you are tamed, and people like uncontrolled, novel, and high-value people. If you continue to do so without establishing your own framework, this relationship is not far from ending.

3 keywords: Confession failure, do not persist

Q: # Crows love to answer questions #+Crows are big, I really can't help it. I want to ask you for advice. I like a senior student. Although she is a senior student, she is of the same age as me and likes her personality more. I think I particularly like her, but my confession failed. My friend helped me summarize it. Although I like her, I have been procrastinating without telling her. And every time I go out to eat, sing, watch movies, or whatever, I always bring my buddy with me... He also told me not to bring him with me every time, but I didn't listen. Not long ago, I confessed and she told me that I wasn't her type because it was my first time chasing a girl, so I wouldn't know anything... probably because I was too anxious, right, Just like what was said, it exposed my sense of need... I hope the crow can help me analyze whether I should continue or not. She told the guy that she would only consider pursuing her for three months, and I only had two months... Also, she said she likes me a little bit, buddy... I'm really drunk! Help me, what if there's a play

Answer: So you need to understand that you have dug a hole for yourself before, making a woman feel like she is a prize. What do you need to do to get such a prize from her? In fact, when you follow her ideas, it often ends up with no good outcome because women are all dependent on men. Before your relationship with her starts, you turn around and become dependent on her?

So what are we going to do now? Discuss with your brother so that he will never have any dealings with this senior student, and do not let him match you two. During this period, you have been working hard to improve and change yourself, changing your image as a "pursuer" in her eyes, and becoming an independent, confident, and fulfilling man. You need to participate in more social activities, strive to get a scholarship through exams, and share photos of yourself playing with other beautiful girls in your social circle. When she knows that you have won the first place in the department's debate competition, approach her again. I believe that being with her will not be far away.

4 keywords; Difficult to chat girl

Q: # Crow loves answering questions # I met a girl who had a good chat on WeChat, but every time she took the initiative to flirt with me, she would ask me if she had gone too far. I just laughed and said she was an old driver. She has a strong framework. In a chat, she said that I couldn't get her so good. I replied that I deserve to have something very good, and then I didn't pay much attention to her. However, she has always been following my social circle and asked me to write to her before. However, when I received the letter, I was quite disappointed and said, 'Is everything okay?' I took a photo of that letter and posted updates that evening, 'There are too many beautiful people, but too few interesting souls.'. Last night, I posted a photo of a book in a dynamic PO, and my sister said she wanted to read my book and asked me to send it to her. It's better to do it now, but it feels difficult to tease her. Ignoring her, she took the initiative to find me again

Answer: A girl like you is more proactive and has a good initial attraction. We have encountered many situations. What are you still chatting with her on WeChat? Do you really think you're the male lead in a movie? Is it interesting to maintain ambiguity as described in Tang and Song poetry?

So what should you do? Now that you have already attracted yourself, what you need to do is two things,

1. Use the crow's great darkness, disguised leadership, and even intercept. 2. Invite a meeting as soon as possible to elevate the relationship.