Post Date December, 03 2023
1、 Career is always the most important thing
Someone once said that a man's maturity depends first on his attitude towards his career. Most mature men prioritize their careers beyond marriage and love. The reason why they have this mentality is because they all have a desire for self-worth, which is the possession of wealth and power, the emotional need to control and be appreciated, and there is a strong sense of "women are clothes, brothers are like siblings" as Liu Bei said!
2、 Accustomed to freedom and unwilling to be bound by marriage
Marriage means responsibility, and most of it is assumed through sacrificing personal freedom. So, for a mature man who has been accustomed to living alone for most of his life, he is absolutely unwilling to easily accept the constraints of marriage unless it is absolutely necessary. In their eyes, freedom is the driving force of life and life. Even for the sake of the woman they love, they will not give up freedom and enter marriage against their will.
3、 Too much emphasis on taste, rather lacking than overindulging
Most men with successful careers and mature thinking have their own unique taste in seeing and handling things, just like looking at women and choosing marriage. They will not easily fall in love with a woman, and even if they love, they may not find a time to hastily marry into the family. They like to do things according to their own taste and plan, even if the timing and taste are not right at all. They will not choose to compromise, but rather miss and miss, rather than compromise and take risks.
4、 Having experienced too much and lacking confidence in marriage
In today's society, the more experienced people are, the less confidence they have in marriage. Because they see too much, listen too much, feel and realize too much. In their view, since marriage is increasingly unable to provide people with freedom and happiness, why do they still strive towards the besieged city of marriage? For mature individuals, this is completely within their control.
5、 Not getting married is also an undeniable state of survival
Our current marriage is no longer the same as before. Perhaps marriage is more of a piece of paper, and there won't be much difference before and after marriage. What can be done after marriage can still be done before marriage, but what can be done before marriage cannot be done casually after marriage. Therefore, based on the infinite tolerance of society towards gender relations, more people have regarded non marriage as a normal state of existence, with the benefits of happiness and freedom.
6、 There's really too little time left for marriage
There is a friend in his early forties who is outstanding in both career and intelligence, but he refuses to enter the palace of marriage. When many enthusiastic friends around mentioned marriage problems with him, the most frequently answered sentence was: "One person's time is not enough, if one or two more people want to compete with me, I really can't imagine!" In fact, the same is true. Marriage is not simply a matter of getting a marriage certificate and sleeping together, but more often it takes time and energy to communicate Appreciating and managing, if we cannot do this and fulfill this responsibility, it is really not as good as living alone.
