Post Date December, 03 2023
A man who usually looks carefree and has a cool expression all day actually has many troubles. For example, these things are almost daily worries for them.
1. To make money for the sake of making money
Although men may not necessarily be the hunters of the family (the role played by men in the nomadic era) or the sole source of income, they always subconsciously believe that they are the backbone of the family, responsible for its prosperity and happiness. When men lose money, cannot earn enough money, or need to beg for money, it is undoubtedly a spiritual disaster. They will feel completely trapped in life and have no way to do anything from then on.
Whether it's heartbreak, losing a game, getting stuck in stocks, not being satisfied with work, or even being fired, failure is something that men cannot tolerate. However, there is a big difference between possible failure and complete failure. Men may still be able to control their emotions after losing a game or collapsing in a bar conversation, but they are all proud guys who never want someone to surpass them or intentionally block the way. This means that others have already taken the lead and taken the opportunity, and those people will inevitably gloat.
2. Physical troubles
Women are often shy about showing their bodies, especially when they think their bodies are not so satisfactory. In fact, men are more concerned about how women view their body image: whether the shoulders, pectoralis major muscles, buttocks, arms and other parts have enough masculine characteristics. Men are fully aware of whether they are too fat, too thin, with heavy hair and a strong odor. Therefore, on the one hand, men desire to glimpse a woman's body, but on the other hand, they are full of anxiety when revealing their own body.
3. Beautiful Women and Sexual Relationships
Among the many factors that make men feel afraid or threatened, a beautiful woman is one. It can be said that beautiful women have the power to catch their eyes anytime and anywhere, such as at work, in a bookstore, or while driving. Although the power of beauty is fleeting, it is always a challenge, and men tremble with excitement in front of beautiful women, inevitably causing them to make some foolish actions.
Being caught by a wife while staring at other women is often one of the most awkward moments for men. But this seems to be a man's nature and difficult to change.
4. To be humiliated in public
Just like Zinedine Zidane's reckless collision with Materazzi in the World Cup final, men must protect their own, family, and family image and reputation no matter what. The most stimulating thing for them is to damage their own reputation, which can even cause the strongest men to suffer a mental breakdown. This is a blow that cannot be cured with any amount of money.
Men, regardless of whether they feel safe in their situation or not, will worry about their own safety; They often fear that they may not look perfect enough, look like fools, or be both stupid and foolish; They are not afraid of stuttering when speaking formally, or showing timidity when chatting carelessly, being criticized by the boss in public at the morning meeting, having problems with the zipper of their pants, playing an own goal on the football field, etc. These are not big problems for men, but just make a mistake or a low-level mistake. But if they are humiliated in public, they will be ashamed of themselves, which is absolutely unacceptable, They must step forward to protect their reputation.
5. Becoming a Bad Lover
Of course, men all hope to be heroes in bed, ready to fight and win, allowing their women to fully enjoy the pleasure of sex. Men are afraid that women may say, 'You've made me sick and tired,' or fail to leave any impression on each other or receive the necessary satisfaction.
Although this may not necessarily be a man's responsibility, men must feel guilty and self blame for it. If a woman disguises an orgasm, it will make men even more upset, so women need to let men know what they really want, and then men can know how to successfully complete the task.
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)
