Post Date December, 03 2023
I have known my husband for 10 years. I have been happy and happy, and I have also been sad and painful. In the third year of senior high school, he pursued me, but I didn't promise him. First, he was a little young, and second, he had to prepare for the college entrance examination. So, he was required to study hard and fall in love after entering the university. I often urge him to study, spend his time playing online games on his homework, help him learn English and improve his academic performance.
After one year's efforts, we were admitted to the same university, but different majors were automatically assigned to other departments because my score was higher and his score was slightly lower. In our freshman year, we established a love relationship. We often played together and joined clubs together. He taught me to play basketball and I taught him to dance. When I was ill, I went to the infirmary to get medicine and ran faster than anyone else. At that time, few people in my class fell in love, and my classmates were envious of me.
After graduation, we went to Shenzhen and worked hard to find jobs. There are many people in Shenzhen, and the competition is fierce. We often rush to the talent market. After more than 20 days of hard work, the work was finally completed. He worked as a salesperson and I worked as a human resource. When we first came out, our salary was not high, and our parents objected to our being together and didn't send me money. My husband comes from the countryside and his family is poor. After graduation, he is embarrassed to ask for money from his family. We have to save. In that year, I got pregnant and quit my job. My husband often went on business, and it would take a month or so to go.
I am slim and weak. I live alone and live alone. I often cook with my stomach! When I told my husband the news of pregnancy, he didn't act very excited and still hesitated during the discussion. Later, he said that it was not easy to work just out, he was not able to raise children, he was not at home, and he had no money. After that, he became a sales director and did not travel frequently, and it was not too late to regenerate. I know him well and know our situation, but I can't help having children. However, it never occurred to me that the baby miscarried later, which also led to my infertility.
I told him about this, and he didn't blame me, but comforted me that we can not have children, as long as two people are happy. At that time, I was moved to tears by my husband's attitude. After two years of marriage, my husband seemed to be a different person. He was in a state of depression. He only played with his mobile phone all day. He put it away as soon as he saw me coming. Besides, he came home at 10 o'clock every night. I think something is wrong. Is my husband having an affair. Once, my husband left his cell phone on the table. I opened it and saw a lot of ambiguous information. He also said that I would meet at 7 o'clock in the mangrove tonight. I was so angry that my tears came out. But I still tried to suppress my anger and decided to go to the mangrove to find out what my husband wanted?
I crouched there early, and sure enough, my husband came on time. He walked leisurely, and I followed him. I've been following her for a long time, but I haven't seen the woman who dated her. About two hours later, he was on his way home. I quickly took a taxi and went home. When I got home, however, he came back. In the next few days, he will be like this, but every time I follow him, I will return without success. I'm confused. I don't know what he's doing. He's like sleepwalking.
In this way, it lasted for more than 10 days. Finally, on a weekend, I saw their chat message again. The content of the message was: Why does my wife still not believe my affair? Why doesn't she say divorce? If she doesn't divorce, I'm sorry to drive her away because she can't have children. I owe her so much in the past. Abortion has my responsibility. I want to have children. I clicked on the other side's space. To my surprise, I found that it was her cousin who was talking to her. They deliberately played a double reed for me.
My husband didn't cheat, just wanted a child. Because of my guilt, I don't want to ask for divorce. Now, I can't have a baby. What should I do if he wants another child? I'm confused. Will our marriage continue? Ten years of love, I don't want to say it's gone!
